[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by cmyx6go

His last activity shows at 10:30ish last night. Not sure what happened, user name and location all changed to ********

Strange. Speaking of MIA members what has happened to Kyngofpop ?

[nyalpine90]

Originally Posted by Kyngofpop

I'm still around. Been having major car troubles and after my long battle with this car, my engine apparently died last night so I'm just kind of in a state of shock atm and trying to figure out what to do...

how much is replacement engine...
is it repairable?

[nyalpine90]

Originally Posted by Kyngofpop

Dealer is saying a replacement engine is like $12k but I haven't checked other sources yet, just kind of in a shoulder shrug of "idk wtf to do" at the moment.

It developed a slight rod bearing knock but I shut it off as soon as I heard it and haven't touched it since. I'm sure it can be saved but I don't know any bmw techs in my area and the usual bmw shop I take it to is certain to want to replace the engine instead of trying to repair it. It's only a slight noise but it's one I've heard before and read about with the N63 and S63. I'm absolutely heartbroken...

i think its time to trade that car in...

[MKSixer]

Originally Posted by Kyngofpop

Dealer is saying a replacement engine is like $12k but I haven't checked other sources yet, just kind of in a shoulder shrug of "idk wtf to do" at the moment.

It developed a slight rod bearing knock but I shut it off as soon as I heard it and haven't touched it since. I'm sure it can be saved but I don't know any bmw techs in my area and the usual bmw shop I take it to is certain to want to replace the engine instead of trying to repair it. It's only a slight noise but it's one I've heard before and read about with the N63 and S63. I'm absolutely heartbroken...

Originally Posted by nyalpine90

i think its time to trade that car in...

i know a guy who knows a guy...

[Turkish Pickle]

i can source you a N47 diesel engine for $4k+shipping if you want to lose a lot of power and look for diesel everywhere you go

[CTinline-six]

Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

i can source you a N47 diesel engine for $4k+shipping if you want to lose a lot of power and look for diesel everywhere you go

Sounds perfect.

Isn't that the one that has timing chain problems too?

[Turkish Pickle]

my roommate cockblocked me tonight saying "it's for the better" because i brought home a girl that was a bit on the thicc side and i've been a total horndog these last few days

[someguywithanm3]

Got some from "Netflix and chill" recently, but I feel bad because she was/is a good friend. Sucks that she's pretty and has a nice body. I liked talking to her for hours at a time. I most likely destroyed that friendship.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

my roommate cockblocked me tonight saying "it's for the better" because i brought home a girl that was a bit on the thicc side and i've been a total horndog these last few days

First, who is he to determine who/what you have relations with? I've been with a few thick girls and nothing at all wrong with it. Second, I would have a conversations with said roommate to abolish aforementioned cockblockery to ensure this never happens again.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by someguywithanm3

Got some from "Netflix and chill" recently, but I feel bad because she was/is a good friend. Sucks that she's pretty and has a nice body. I liked talking to her for hours at a time. I most likely destroyed that friendship.

Maybe not. Sometimes these are the situations that great relationships are made of. I get the feeling that she didn't do anything that she didn't want to. If you were great friends before, this may be something worth exploring. I wouldn't go further with this feeling bad about it, I would try to move forward. If you have great conversation, she's pretty and has a nice body, I would definitely try to keep the momentum going.

How is she acting after?

[CTinline-six]

Originally Posted by Now_Rudi

Maybe not. Sometimes these are the situations that great relationships are made of. I get the feeling that she didn't do anything that she didn't want to. If you were great friends before, this may be something worth exploring. I wouldn't go further with this feeling bad about it, I would try to move forward. If you have great conversation, she's pretty and has a nice body, I would definitely try to keep the momentum going.

How is she acting after?

This. You may not have destroyed a friendship, but instead created the potential for a relationship. My best relationship was with someone I was friends with first.

Also, congrats on escaping the friendzone my man.

[CTinline-six]

Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

my roommate cockblocked me tonight saying "it's for the better" because i brought home a girl that was a bit on the thicc side and i've been a total horndog these last few days

HMM.

I mean there is a difference between thick and YUGE. Sounds like we need more details (pictures) to assess the roommate's intentions.

[Joekerr]

Originally Posted by someguywithanm3

Got some from "Netflix and chill" recently, but I feel bad because she was/is a good friend. Sucks that she's pretty and has a nice body. I liked talking to her for hours at a time. I most likely destroyed that friendship.

Originally Posted by Now_Rudi

Maybe not. Sometimes these are the situations that great relationships are made of. I get the feeling that she didn't do anything that she didn't want to. If you were great friends before, this may be something worth exploring. I wouldn't go further with this feeling bad about it, I would try to move forward. If you have great conversation, she's pretty and has a nice body, I would definitely try to keep the momentum going.

How is she acting after?

The "how is she acting after" is the key here.

I'll present a counterpoint (regrettably, one that supports your notion that you just ruined that friendship) - one of my wife's colleagues (woman) was best friends for years with this guy, talked for hours, etc. Just about 5 months ago, they were skiing out in Banff or Whistler and things progressed and they wound up (in Bill Clinton's voice preferably) "having sexual relations".

It wound up destroying the friendship, he initially wanted to keep going with the new aspect of the relationship, she said it wasn't what she wanted, then he wanted to just be friends, but she couldn't see that either given what happened, so basically, they are no more.

But the key here is how she acted.

And so you need to really figure out how this friend is acting. Really fast.

[someguywithanm3]

Originally Posted by Now_Rudi

Maybe not. Sometimes these are the situations that great relationships are made of. I get the feeling that she didn't do anything that she didn't want to. If you were great friends before, this may be something worth exploring. I wouldn't go further with this feeling bad about it, I would try to move forward. If you have great conversation, she's pretty and has a nice body, I would definitely try to keep the momentum going.

How is she acting after?

She feels bad about it. She doesn't want me to think of her as a slut. She also gave me the whole, "you're a good friend and I'm sorry if I hurt you." I'm avoiding her and she's reaching out to me to hang out.

I'm giving her time to think, but I feel I messed this up. I guess time will tell. I do regret it, but I couldn't maintain a simple relationship with her anyway. Too bad she's not ugly. I enjoyed talking to her.

[CTinline-six]

Originally Posted by someguywithanm3

She feels bad about it. She doesn't want me to think of her as a slut. She also gave me the whole, "you're a good friend and I'm sorry if I hurt you." I'm avoiding her and she's reaching out to me to hang out.

I'm giving her time to think, but I feel I messed this up. I guess time will tell. I do regret it, but I couldn't maintain a simple relationship with her anyway. Too bad she's not ugly. I enjoyed talking to her.

That's what sluts say.

Sorry man, I wouldn't say you messed it up. She should've stopped you and said no if she knew that's not what she wanted. A true friend would have.

[nyalpine90]

Originally Posted by someguywithanm3

She feels bad about it. She doesn't want me to think of her as a slut. She also gave me the whole, "you're a good friend and I'm sorry if I hurt you." I'm avoiding her and she's reaching out to me to hang out.

I'm giving her time to think, but I feel I messed this up. I guess time will tell. I do regret it, but I couldn't maintain a simple relationship with her anyway. Too bad she's not ugly. I enjoyed talking to her.

I dont see a problem
if she still wants to hang out obviously she is ok with getting the d.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by nyalpine90

I dont see a problem
if she still wants to hang out obviously she is ok with getting the d.

This is my thought. If it were me I would without a doubt take her up on spending some time together. Just my opinion.

[AWF10M5]

Originally Posted by AWF10M5

I was in my first serious (to me) relationship for a long time for many many years since I was 18, I am now 24 and I still have not moved on.

I have been with so many different girls the last few months to move on that I lost count. I try to be emerged in hobbies and interests but it seems I am still stuck. The cycle goes that within a few weeks I lose interest in whatever girl I am fucking/talking to and I end up back at a square one after ghosting them. Been going on for a year now.

I even wasted some time and money on the pros who told me that a heartbreak at this age is very unique/personal and sometimes it takes years and years to finally move on if that even happens.

The boat keeps sinking deeper and deeper and no matter how hard I try to get out I sink deeper.

[Germanauto]

Got flaked on for 3 separate dates within the past week.

Being a millennial sucks sometimes! There's an entire generation of people who don't know the meaning of commitment/remaining true to their word. Texting and social media makes it very convenient to be selfish.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Germanauto

Got flaked on for 3 separate dates within the past week.

Being a millennial sucks sometimes! There's an entire generation of people who don't know the meaning of commitment/remaining true to their word. Texting and social media makes it very convenient to be selfish.

I'm sad to report that this is not limited to millennials. This has become the societal norm these days. A persons loyalty is directly associated with their need of what they think you can offer them.

[Turkish Pickle]

Originally Posted by Now_Rudi

First, who is he to determine who/what you have relations with? I've been with a few thick girls and nothing at all wrong with it. Second, I would have a conversations with said roommate to abolish aforementioned cockblockery to ensure this never happens again.

don't worry, i told him wtf bro that's not chill, he still stuck by it.
next time i'm just going to bring someone over i won't even text him, let him wallow in his jealousy...

Originally Posted by CTinline-six

HMM.

I mean there is a difference between thick and YUGE. Sounds like we need more details (pictures) to assess the roommate's intentions.

i mean yes, there is a difference between a thicc girl and a "YUGE", but no worries your boy did not require the use of a harpoon

Originally Posted by Germanauto

Got flaked on for 3 separate dates within the past week.

Being a millennial sucks sometimes! There's an entire generation of people who don't know the meaning of commitment/remaining true to their word. Texting and social media makes it very convenient to be selfish.

MILENNIALS ARE KILLING THE DATING SCENE


also, my guy with the "we were friends but we had sex", it happens - if she's still hitting you up to chill she's fine, i'd say keep it at that and turn that friendship into a friends with benefits

im in a similar situation myself, we've been "spotted" by a few of my friends at the mall and target etc and honestly? it's nice to have a "girlfriend" without the label, at least until she hits me with the "what are we" question... until then

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

also, my guy with the "we were friends but we had sex", it happens - if she's still hitting you up to chill she's fine, i'd say keep it at that and turn that friendship into a friends with benefits

im in a similar situation myself, we've been "spotted" by a few of my friends at the mall and target etc and honestly? it's nice to have a "girlfriend" without the label, at least until she hits me with the "what are we" question... until then

THIS! A non-labeled, mutual respect, FWB relationship is the way to go as long as both parties are committed to only sleeping with each other. This is ideal for sure. someguywithanm3 take notes.