[Douche]

Originally Posted by Revartr

We're talking again, haha. She finally sent me a couple of texts yesterday morning explaining everything, after I texted her the previous night saying how I felt about the whole situation. Basically, she just was feeling kind of weird because we were both pretty drunk, and she didn't remember all of it. So she needed some time to think about things and get her head straight. But we're good now and back to normal.

What that's it?

Boring...

[Revartr]

Originally Posted by Douche

What that's it?

Boring...

Yeah, haha. Sorry!

The only thing is that she feels like we need to tell her ex-boyfriend, who happens to be a very good friend of mine, about it, "out of respect". They broke up 2-3 years ago, and her and him are just now starting to become friends again. Normally, I wouldn't think of this as a big deal or anything, but the night that her and I had sex, I accidentally butt-dialed him (I was texting him a little bit earlier, so his contact info was still open in my phone), and he heard us talking about kissing/making out and flipped his s**t the next day. So I don't really think this is a good idea. It would be different if her and I were going to date or be in a relationship or something serious like that, but we just had sex once. That's it. I just don't feel like there's any reason he needs to know about that.

[Billup]

Have to wait another 3.75 hours for this. FML.

[Taskmaster]

Don't worry Billup, you can tag me in to take care of her for you.

[Douche]

Originally Posted by Revartr

Yeah, haha. Sorry!

The only thing is that she feels like we need to tell her ex-boyfriend, who happens to be a very good friend of mine, about it, "out of respect". They broke up 2-3 years ago, and her and him are just now starting to become friends again. Normally, I wouldn't think of this as a big deal or anything, but the night that her and I had sex, I accidentally butt-dialed him (I was texting him a little bit earlier, so his contact info was still open in my phone), and he heard us talking about kissing/making out and flipped his s**t the next day. So I don't really think this is a good idea. It would be different if her and I were going to date or be in a relationship or something serious like that, but we just had sex once. That's it. I just don't feel like there's any reason he needs to know about that.

The plot thickens.

Now there's butt dialling on a touch phone... Interesting.

The ex of 3 years is still hung up on the tomboy that has sex with friends and sends headshots to friends while at it.

Stay tuned!

[Revartr]

Originally Posted by Douche

The plot thickens.

Now there's butt dialling on a touch phone... Interesting.

The ex of 3 years is still hung up on the tomboy that has sex with friends and sends headshots to friends while at it.

Stay tuned!

Not literal "butt" dialing, just accidental. I'm just used to using that phrasing, haha. And this is what he said to me after I got him calmed down the next day. Keep in mind, we also work at the same place of business, though different departments.

Well I understand being drunk and whatnot but that's not a good situation to put yourself in if you find her attractive. We haven't spoken in nearly two years so when I got texts from her last night while trying to take care of Anna (she has strep throat) on my last night with her and then I get a phonecall from you with that sh** in it... Well you can imagine I wasn't very happy. I appreciate the apology.

[Douche]

Originally Posted by Revartr

Not literal "butt" dialing, just accidental. I'm just used to using that phrasing, haha. And this is what he said to me after I got him calmed down the next day. Keep in mind, we also work at the same place of business, though different departments.

You are all fucked up... You apologized for banging a girl who is your friend and with whom this dude has broken off 3 years ago, and not spoken to in 2? And then he accepts the apology? And he wasn't happy with your shit?

What a freak show. Keep us posted, this is better than Jersey Shore

[Revartr]

Originally Posted by Douche

You are all fucked up... You apologized for banging a girl who is your friend and with whom this dude has broken off 3 years ago, and not spoken to in 2? And then he accepts the apology? And he wasn't happy with your shit?

What a freak show. Keep us posted, this is better than Jersey Shore

Nooo, haha. I only apologized for what he heard us saying when I accidentally called him, which was just us talking briefly about kissing/making out then random babble. That's what he was pissed about and what I apologized about the next day.

Him and I are cool now, but he has no idea that her and I had sex. She wants to tell him that we had sex "out of respect", which I think is completely unnecessary. I would understand if her and I were going to date or be in a relationship, but we're not.

[Douche]

Originally Posted by Revartr

Nooo, haha. I only apologized for what he heard us saying when I accidentally called him, which was just us talking briefly about kissing/making out then random babble. That's what he was pissed about and what I apologized about the next day.

Him and I are cool now, but he has no idea that her and I had sex. She wants to tell him that we had sex "out of respect", which I think is completely unnecessary. I would understand if her and I were going to date or be in a relationship, but we're not.

I don't understand how somebody can have sex out of respect. Here, I respect you so much, fuck me. Maybe....

[Templar]

Originally Posted by Douche

I don't understand how somebody can have sex out of respect. Here, I respect you so much, fuck me. Maybe....

I think he meant the act of telling him was the respectful thing to do.

Either way, it still makes no sense to me. They've been broken up for years, who the hell cares?

[Revartr]

Originally Posted by Douche

I don't understand how somebody can have sex out of respect. Here, I respect you so much, fuck me. Maybe....

Well, she means out of respect for him, not me. What she said was, "I think ****** should know though. Just out of respect, you know?" then after a few more back-and-forths, "No, you're fine. And alright. We'll tell him together though so just don't worry about it until then. He and I have been talking while he's gone on vacation and we're slowly becoming friends again. I'm going to try to befriend ****** (his current girlfriend) so she isn't uncomfortable about it or anything. But yeah. He was my best friend for a long time and I owe him that out of respect, like I said."

Again, if her and I were going to date or be in a relationship, I would understand. But we had sex ONCE. I just don't feel like that's something that he needs to know about. There's nothing positive that will come from it. I feel like I would be respecting him more by not saying anything about it.

[Revartr]

Originally Posted by Templar

I think he meant the act of telling him was the respectful thing to do.

Either way, it still makes no sense to me. They've been broken up for years, who the hell cares?

[Tim603]

Sounds like a girl I know, she likes to create drama where there isn't any. Fuckin chicks

[Douche]

Originally Posted by Tim603

Sounds like a girl I know, she likes to create drama where there isn't any. Fuckin chicks

Is her name Sara by any chance?

[Revartr]

Originally Posted by Tim603

Sounds like a girl I know, she likes to create drama where there isn't any. Fuckin chicks

I mean, she's never been the type to cause drama between people. She usually stays out of other people's business. But she also just thinks differently, she's not very emotional and genuinely thinks that she's doing the respectable thing.

[Tim603]

Originally Posted by Revartr

I mean, she's never been the type to cause drama between people. She usually stays out of other people's business. But she also just thinks differently, she's not very emotional and genuinely thinks that she's doing the respectable thing.

Gotcha so shes just being naive it sounds like. Be the man, tell her whats up! If she really is just your friend than you shouldn't have a problem

[Revartr]

Originally Posted by Tim603

Gotcha so shes just being naive it sounds like. Be the man, tell her whats up! If she really is just your friend than you shouldn't have a problem

Exactly. And I am, but I'm going to talk to her about it in person when we hangout next. My best friend also thinks it's a terrible idea, and she's a female, haha.

[Bobble]

Originally Posted by Billup

Grimlock.

And then you will get into the suicide prevention business and make a mint! No offense Grimey but you often have the subtlety of sandpaper.

[Bobble]

Originally Posted by Revartr

Nooo, haha. I only apologized for what he heard us saying when I accidentally called him, which was just us talking briefly about kissing/making out then random babble. That's what he was pissed about and what I apologized about the next day.

Him and I are cool now, but he has no idea that her and I had sex. She wants to tell him that we had sex "out of respect", which I think is completely unnecessary. I would understand if her and I were going to date or be in a relationship, but we're not.

Geez I did not know kids had phones and sex in grade school.

Damn son, you banged a girl who you find attractive and she let you; and you're apologizing to and she feels the need to tell some dude she broke up with 3 years ago and has not spoken to in 2 years. You got to be making this crap up. You owe no one anything and you need to walk on that girl like now or you will the op in the next "Came on Too Strong " thread.

They need to rename this place to Peyton Place.

Here's my FML, came home no Coke or Ginger Ale for either my Jameson or Jack so I had to use Dr Pepper. I lived.

[NEFARIOUS]

Today marks the day that I'm finally current with all my bills, and I was scheduled to move to a much better place this weekend... But then I got laid off. FML.

[Revartr]

Originally Posted by Bobble

Damn son, you banged a girl who you find attractive and she let you; and you're apologizing to and she feels the need to tell some dude she broke up with 3 years ago and has not spoken to in 2 years. You got to be making this crap up. You owe no one anything and you need to walk on that girl like now or you will the op in the next "Came on Too Strong " thread.

1.) She's not just some chick, she's one of my best friends.
2.) He's not just some random dude, he's also one of my best friends.
3.) I didn't apologize to her, I apologized to him because I accidentally called him while her and I were drunk, he heard us talking about kissing/making out, and he flipped shit about it the next day.
4.) I'm not going to walk on anyone because she is one of my best friends. And we're just friends. That's it. There's no "came on too strong" about anything.

[Bobble]

Originally Posted by Revartr

1.) She's not just some chick, she's one of my best friends.
2.) He's not just some random dude, he's also one of my best friends.
3.) I didn't apologize to her, I apologized to him because I accidentally called him while her and I were drunk, he heard us talking about kissing/making out, and he flipped shit about it the next day.
4.) I'm not going to walk on anyone because she is one of my best friends. And we're just friends. That's it. There's no "came on too strong" about anything.

Simmer down there.
You owe nothing to anyone period, you acted as two consenting "adults". I never said you apologized to her I said you apologized to him, maybe I needed a comma between the to and the and to convey that. Still don't get why you did noting wrong. If you enjoy the drama then carry on but the fact that she needs to tell him says she is emotionally involved still regardless of the time frame. Word to the wise involving best friends in these kinds of things could turn out really bad as in not having that friendship any longer. The thread reference is there because of the prior sentence not the literal sense of the words.