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      05-12-2015, 10:00 AM   #23
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Kidding aside, it will be good for you to get out and enjoy yourself. I'm going to take a wild guess that your mother will do a good job watching her so you can have some fun. Enjoy it. Go on the damn second date.
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You need someone like Billup, he's needy, clingy, a great communicator...he'll make you feel like you're the most beautiful woman in the world.

Then again a lot of girls are attracted to cocky assholes that treat em like shit.
All girls are attracted to cocky assholes. Pushovers don't do well unless you find someone who wants to settle down, so ladies 40 and over.

Everyone needs someone like me. I'll kick you down, make you realize its all your fault, only to boast more of my greatness, then I'll hold you in my arms until you fall asleep...,


then I'll sneak out the back door and never call again.
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All girls are attracted to cocky assholes. Pushovers don't do well unless you find someone who wants to settle down, so ladies 40 and over.

Everyone needs someone like me. I'll kick you down, make you realize its all your fault, only to boast more of my greatness, then I'll hold you in my arms until you fall asleep...,


then I'll sneak out the back door and never call again.
And he'll make you laugh...
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      05-12-2015, 10:22 AM   #26
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I dont know, girl...it just seems like you're more into him or He's just a cool cat.
Normally, we would have had a conversation by now....... Its 930 and nothing


I quit.
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You need someone like Billup, he's needy, clingy, a great communicator...he'll make you feel like you're the most beautiful woman in the world.

Then again a lot of girls are attracted to cocky assholes that treat em like shit.
All girls are attracted to cocky assholes. Pushovers don't do well unless you find someone who wants to settle down, so ladies 40 and over.

Everyone needs someone like me. I'll kick you down, make you realize its all your fault, only to boast more of my greatness, then I'll hold you in my arms until you fall asleep...,


then I'll sneak out the back door and never call again.
Is this why Bimmette is not answering my calls? Am I coming off as pushy?

I just love her too much, that's all.

Maybe she should initiate something someday too. I'll post my thread, wait a sec
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Normally, we would have had a conversation by now....... Its 930 and nothing


I quit.
Stop over thinking. I hate texting / talking on the phone. Maybe he does too. Maybe he is just arrogant and knows he's reeled you in. Learn to read people by their behavior.
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Normally, we would have had a conversation by now....... Its 930 and nothing


I quit.
Give him a couple of days, a chance to miss you.
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      05-12-2015, 10:32 AM   #31
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Is this why Bimmette is not answering my calls? Am I coming off as pushy?

I just love her too much, that's all.

Maybe she should initiate something someday too. I'll post my thread, wait a sec
You should probably step it up a notch and take the relationship to the next level. Have you tried waiting for her outside her house in the bushes yet?
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Sara, you're not on the same vibe he is. Which is unfortunate for you because you're all hung up on him.

You know what they say, you find someone when you're not looking for anyone. In this case, you're obviously looking, and creating expectations.

Forget about him. Try to seek friendship, which does not require anything in exchange of attention, and go from there.

Your expectations are reeking of desperation. Let it come naturally.

And I'm saying it only because of one sentence you wrote: "it's 9:30 and no conversation yet, and we're usually talking at this hour". Fuck dude... Get a grip of yourself. Stop expecting something out of OTHERS.
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Is this why Bimmette is not answering my calls? Am I coming off as pushy?

I just love her too much, that's all.

Maybe she should initiate something someday too. I'll post my thread, wait a sec
You should probably step it up a notch and take the relationship to the next level. Have you tried waiting for her outside her house in the bushes yet?
I did, but she never sees me because she lives in a building.

I once gave her keys to a dude when she lost them, but she doesn't notice me. I think she thinks I'm a douche.
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Give him a couple of days, a chance to miss you.
I'll give him til Friday at noon.
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Give him a couple of days, a chance to miss you.
I'll give him til Friday at noon.
Then what? You're gonna storm into his office and dance butt-naked on his boss' desk?
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An American made car. I let him drive mine already
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Then what? You're gonna storm into his office and dance butt-naked on his boss' desk?
No, just not give my Mom my child to take for the weekend and spend the weekend at home.
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I'll give him til Friday at noon.
no need.. boat has sailed
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Sara, you're not on the same vibe he is. Which is unfortunate for you because you're all hung up on him.

You know what they say, you find someone when you're not looking for anyone. In this case, you're obviously looking, and creating expectations.

Forget about him. Try to seek friendship, which does not require anything in exchange of attention, and go from there.

Your expectations are reeking of desperation. Let it come naturally.

And I'm saying it only because of one sentence you wrote: "it's 9:30 and no conversation yet, and we're usually talking at this hour". Fuck dude... Get a grip of yourself. Stop expecting something out of OTHERS.
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Give him a couple of days, a chance to miss you.
I'll give him til Friday at noon.
That's pretty generous. If someone likes you, he'd be texting constantly.
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Then what? You're gonna storm into his office and dance butt-naked on his boss' desk?
No, just not give my Mom my child to take for the weekend and spend the weekend at home.
So you were on that level eh?

Come on Sara... You can do better than that. You were not on the same page on the relationship, he's not thirsty anymore because he had milk but didn't buy the cow (not that you're fat or anything). It's cool, but you should have been on the same pace he was.

Now that you know he's not, chill. Or learn to be on the same page.
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I did, but she never sees me because she lives in a building.

I once gave her keys to a dude when she lost them, but she doesn't notice me. I think she thinks I'm a douche.
Hmmm, this is interesting, I don't see Bimette being this way. Maybe you should try leaving a ton of notes on her car to see in the morning before work. Then you can stalk her to work and shower her with flowers. If that isn't overbearing enough, maybe send the largest arrangement from Edible Arrangements daily.
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