[guardianangel3290]

Originally Posted by antongk

she has mentioned that she has a f'd up family situation, ran away from home and what not...

yea she's fucked up

did you ask about drug usage lol

[MAZNG]

every guys needs their very own, " I dated a stripper story"...Go for it and have fun just like you would with any other cute girl! Just don't get trapped by the pu55y or your ass (& wallet) is hers. lol She's a stripper for more than the reasons she tells you (and one is definitely the easy money).

GL

[antongk]

Originally Posted by guardianangel3290

maybe she saw you roll up in your bimmer lol

i wouldnt say its too many, but she is a stripper so that 4 doesnt reflect the BJ's she's given for a big tip.

i know a couple strippers and while theyre nice girls theyre pretty much all the same. They want money, they know how to get it and they like sex. These arent necessarily bad things, but at the same time they dont really show much potential for which to attempt to base a relationship.

lol she hasn't seen my car yet... but i just cant seem to believe that this is all for the dollar. Why would she ask for my number without me even hinting at it? it's not like i wouldnt come back and pay her or w/e. and she initiated the texting and keeps asking all my friends all these questions about me during their dances. like wtf? what kind of stripper would do that..

It just seems like too much for someone to do if they were only looking to get paid.

[c0nstant]

Originally Posted by MisterSkiMask

Just consider how f-in nuts the average female is, now consider an 18 year old (probably sexually abused) stripper with male/daddy issues.

this x100,000,000,000,000,000,000,000

[c0nstant]

Originally Posted by MisterSkiMask

I rest my case. Step dad probably touched her or some sh*t.

Run away man. She is nutty, you'll get attached to her and try to be the hero, and you will derail your future.

You will want her to stop stripping, so you will have to pay her bills, she will move in with you (before you know it, all her sh*t will be at your place), she will get pregnant. RUN AWAY!

didnt see this post, this x958,698,455,095,202,834,582,085,048,502,832,845

[persian54]

Originally Posted by antongk

shes 18 and said shes only been with 4 guys. is that a lot?

depends really

I know a girl who had 10 guys by the age of 25.... and each was a 1 year relationship, so it's not bad.
Yet, I have a friend who is 30 but has only been with 2

If she's 18, and has had say 4 Bfs, each lasting 6 months (meaning she started at age 16) that's not all that bad
6 months is a long time for a high school relationship
and just about enough time for people to get more serious and become physical

but then, if she just turned 18 and has had sex with 4 guys in like a month.. well.. that's different

age is mainly a number tbh....

[antongk]

Originally Posted by guardianangel3290

yea she's fucked up

did you ask about drug usage lol

lol no, she did ironically ask me though. heh

[guardianangel3290]

Originally Posted by antongk

lol she hasn't seen my car yet... but i just cant seem to believe that this is all for the dollar. Why would she ask for my number without me even hinting at it? it's not like i wouldnt come back and pay her or w/e. and she initiated the texting and keeps asking all my friends all these questions about me during their dances. like wtf? what kind of stripper would do that..

It just seems like too much for someone to do if they were only looking to get paid.

I never said she doesnt like you. haha
From the way you described her, she sounds like she wants you pretty bad. BUT she is a runaway and is probably looking for a guy to add some stability to her life, so if you like her enough to try and be there for her then by all means give it a shot. You just have to see things through her eyes.


Oh, and BTW dont just hit it & quit it like everybody has been saying. That's really a dick move. You make her sound like a nice girl, so don't go and do something like that to her if she hasnt given you a reason to. If shit really is going down in her life the last thing she needs is to be used by some guy she tried to open up to.

[c0nstant]

Originally Posted by MAZNG

every guys needs their very own, " I dated a stripper story"...Go for it and have fun just like you would with any other cute girl! Just don't get trapped by the pu55y or your ass (& wallet) is hers. lol She's a stripper for more than the reasons she tells you (and one is definitely the easy money).

GL

anything but this. this is easily the worst advice ITT.

[antongk]

Originally Posted by guardianangel3290

i never said she doesnt like you haha.
from the way you described it it sounds like she wants you pretty bad. BUT she is a runaway probably looking for a guy to add some stability to her life, so if you like she's good enough to try and be there for then by all means give it a shot. You just have to see things through her eyes.


and BTW dont just hit it & quit it like everybody has been saying. Thats really a dick move. you make her sound like a nice girl, so dont go and do something like that to her if she hasnt given you a reason to. if shit really is going down in her life the last thing she needs is to be used

she actually did say "you are actually a good guy" or something along those lines. and yeah i agree, i'm not going to just try and hit/quit. i personally just wanna see where things go.

[Peanuto]

I have a few friends who are strippers. I met them all out at random bars and have never visited them at work. I spend no money on them. This makes me qualified to answer you because I have also been on the opposite spectrum. I once dated a girl who was a stripper (yet again met her outside the cub, never visited there) Strippers have a thing they call a 'customer' . This is not any guy who goes into the club. They target certain guys who they think they could be friends with. They want to hang out outside of the club as well as in. This is al accurate. They also deceive said 'customers' over time into taking them out for expensive meals... go to the mall (guess who ends up paying)... I even know one girl who had a customer who pays her rent in a waterfront high rise. Do they sleep with these guys? Some do, but a lot don't. They flirt and maybe make out every now and then, but just enough to keep the guy sucked in. It all seems innocent enough, but as somebody who has friends who does this for a living, you are describing exactly how they suck in their mark. Sorry bro. You don't have to take my advice, but don't say I didn't warn.

[antongk]

Originally Posted by Peanuto

I have a few friends who are strippers. I met them all out at random bars and have never visited them at work. I spend no money on them. This makes me qualified to answer you because I have also been on the opposite spectrum. I once dated a girl who was a stripper (yet again met her outside the cub, never visited there) Strippers have a thing they call a 'customer' . This is not any guy who goes into the club. They target certain guys who they think they could be friends with. They want to hang out outside of the club as well as in. This is al accurate. They also deceive said 'customers' over time into taking them out for expensive meals... go to the mall (guess who ends up paying)... I even know one girl who had a customer who pays her rent in a waterfront high rise. Do they sleep with these guys? Some do, but a lot don't. They flirt and maybe make out every now and then, but just enough to keep the guy sucked in. It all seems innocent enough, but as somebody who has friends who does this for a living, you are describing exactly how they suck in their mark. Sorry bro. You don't have to take my advice, but don't say I didn't warn.

no need to apologize man i appreciate your insights. If this were true then the next question i have to ask myself is why me? could have been any of my other friends she had to pick me out of all the guys goin there?ughh.. she knows im a college kid and have no means to be dropping money on all the stuff she could expect. we're both 18, and in freshmen at our respective colleges, it just seem like someone that young would be looking for someone to fund their housing and what not.

As far as strippers targeting guys they think they could be friends with, she talks soo much about how she wants to rape me and have her way with me and whatnot outside of the club. i dunno it just seems like thats more than just being friends.. also she said she wanted to take me out to pay for me! i hear that and think she clearly doesn't want me to be paying for what shes doing for me at the club.. or is she really just that good at sucking me in?

[guardianangel3290]

Originally Posted by antongk

no need to apologize man i appreciate your insights. If this were true then the next question i have to ask myself is why me? could have been any of my other friends she had to pick me out of all the guys goin there?ughh.. she knows im a college kid and have no means to be dropping money on all the stuff she could expect. we're both 18, and in freshmen at our respective colleges, it just seem like someone that young would be looking for someone to fund their housing and what not.

As far as strippers targeting guys they think they could be friends with, she talks soo much about how she wants to rape me and have her way with me and whatnot outside of the club. i dunno it just seems like thats more than just being friends.. also she said she wanted to take me out to pay for me! i hear that and think she clearly doesn't want me to be paying for what shes doing for me at the club.. or is she really just that good at sucking me in?

the only way to know for sure is to take her out a few times

take her hiking or something else that is free. if she gets pissy about it then dont go out with her again

[Pink Taco]

Well that's their job... and that's what they do. It's a good investment for her to pay at first. But in the end she has all the profit.

[hhkim]

I mean if you want the gonosyphilliaids go for it. But theres no way to be sure. I say high five

This reminds me, the wrestler with mickey rourke, he falls for a stripper

killer movie!

but seriously you need to find out more info, take her out to an inexpensive date, see how she reacts

[antongk]

Originally Posted by MisterSkiMask

I rest my case. Step dad probably touched her or some sh*t.

Run away man. She is nutty, you'll get attached to her and try to be the hero, and you will derail your future.

You will want her to stop stripping, so you will have to pay her bills, she will move in with you (before you know it, all her sh*t will be at your place), she will get pregnant. RUN AWAY!

i see what your saying but we're both 18! this just seems too extreme.

[RENN Spec]

If that is the case, then scam a scam artist.

[MisterSkiMask]

Originally Posted by antongk

i see what your saying but we're both 18! this just seems too extreme.

Extreme circumstances are what force a beautiful young girl to run away from home to be a stripper. Beware.

[c0nstant]

Originally Posted by antongk

no need to apologize man i appreciate your insights. If this were true then the next question i have to ask myself is why me? could have been any of my other friends she had to pick me out of all the guys goin there?ughh.. she knows im a college kid and have no means to be dropping money on all the stuff she could expect. we're both 18, and in freshmen at our respective colleges, it just seem like someone that young would be looking for someone to fund their housing and what not.

As far as strippers targeting guys they think they could be friends with, she talks soo much about how she wants to rape me and have her way with me and whatnot outside of the club. i dunno it just seems like thats more than just being friends.. also she said she wanted to take me out to pay for me! i hear that and think she clearly doesn't want me to be paying for what shes doing for me at the club.. or is she really just that good at sucking me in?

she doesnt only have to be after money. you said she mentioned having a rough up-bringing; she might be looking for someone to be her 'hero' as suggested earlier. for whatever reason, she may have found something comforting about you. she wants to latch onto you, get you hooked on her vagoo, ensuring you cant hurt or leave her like people from her past. abort mission, imo. as soon as you put your dick inside her, she has you by the balls.

[.retired.]

Originally Posted by antongk

no need to apologize man i appreciate your insights. If this were true then the next question i have to ask myself is why me? could have been any of my other friends she had to pick me out of all the guys goin there?ughh.. she knows im a college kid and have no means to be dropping money on all the stuff she could expect. we're both 18, and in freshmen at our respective colleges, it just seem like someone that young would be looking for someone to fund their housing and what not.

As far as strippers targeting guys they think they could be friends with, she talks soo much about how she wants to rape me and have her way with me and whatnot outside of the club. i dunno it just seems like thats more than just being friends.. also she said she wanted to take me out to pay for me! i hear that and think she clearly doesn't want me to be paying for what shes doing for me at the club.. or is she really just that good at sucking me in?

from your description of yourself, sounds like you have a good looking appearance. if i was a chic and just wanna mess around, i may rather look for a handsome dude. some chics may prefer looks over $$, not many, but there are those few inside the bunch. or she just looking for some company, maybe she doesn't have a proper relationship and a 'miserable' life therefore trying to look for someone that she can be with and probably have a stable relationship.

[eunosracr]

Don't try to be captain "Save-a-hoe".You can't turn a hoe into a house wife. Just tap it and run. Don't spend any money on her.

[RENN Spec]

btw, MOAR PICTURES!! MOAAR!