[cycler]

Originally Posted by ZGirl4U

so how horrible is this.... ive kept in touch with a former coworker for like ever.... now hes like blackmailing me into having dinner with him in return for a good reference.... and since i cant use my current company, i basically dont have many options

[Mr_T]

Originally Posted by cycler

Damn Marc how did you find a pic of jerry. LOL thats what he looks like

[F87LUV]

Originally Posted by Mr_T

Tell the guy to stick his referenece up his . Just supply your new company with the HR contact at each company you need referals from.

ummm... this is the only company that has an HR dept and im sure that warning is on record

[cycler]

Originally Posted by ZGirl4U

so how horrible is this.... ive kept in touch with a former coworker for like ever.... now hes like blackmailing me into having dinner with him in return for a good reference.... and since i cant use my current company, i basically dont have many options

Did he send you emails about dinner or had a conversation about this. Tape him or save the emails and threaten to send them to Human resourses. blackmail his punk ass.

[F87LUV]

hes not at this company

[Mr_T]

Originally Posted by ZGirl4U

ummm... this is the only company that has an HR dept and im sure that warning is on record

That is not allowed to be up for disscussion. All they should be doing, once you are given the the offer in writing and it is signed by both parties, is verify employment and salary if you were asked to disclose it.

[cycler]

Then choose a place to have dinner and order the most expensive meal and the most expensive bottle of wine. Then have a full nights conversation about one thing that will probably change his views of you. MODDING CARS LOL.

[nyalpine90]

im tired

[Mr_T]

Originally Posted by cycler

Then choose a place to have dinner and order the most expensive meal and the most expensive bottle of wine. Then have a full nights conversation about one thing that will probably change his views of you. MODDING CARS LOL.

or

Then choose a place to have dinner and order the most expensive meal and the most expensive bottle of wine. When you are done.....grab your bag and say :finger: as you are walking out.....

[cycler]

Originally Posted by nyalpine90

im tired

Im Aaron.....nice to meet you

[F87LUV]

haha.... hes not even cute...

[cycler]

I guess having dinner is looking better and better LOL.....as friends though

[Mr_T]

OK....lady and gents....I really have to take a look at some stuff....I'll be back later.

Lana seriously...tell the guy to fuck off ( before or after you have the dinner...your choice) and tell you recruiter that you have not kept in contact with managers from previous employment who would be able to make a viable reference. Ask she/he if this will be a problem...it shoudn't be

[F87LUV]

dont goooooooooooo

[F87LUV]

Originally Posted by cycler

I guess having dinner is looking better and better LOL.....as friends though

[nyalpine90]

here we go again lol

[F87LUV]

eddddddddddddie dont go

[nyalpine90]

[nyalpine90]

Originally Posted by ZGirl4U

eddddddddddddie dont go

what do u mean dont go .lol

[F87LUV]

away

[Mr_T]

Originally Posted by nyalpine90

You had a better version of that one a while back....although this one still cracks me up....

[nyalpine90]

Originally Posted by ZGirl4U

away

aww

im sure you will be in good hands while im away..

besides i bet u will forget about me after third day im gone