[Sara]

Originally Posted by AW335TT

Haha.. if a girl think she has, low self esteem, she's ugly, "wants" to fight for what she wants.. She definitely isn't confident.

What would a girl that you described be confident in?

Look, when you take me to 4 bars and Ive had 3 shots of wild turkey, a lemon drop, and another cocktail.....I am confident as fuck!!

[Sara]

OK Update! I met up with Itailian Guido for 10 minutes. I literally only had time to say hi, hows it going and bye. And we are STILL texting!

[AW335TT]

Originally Posted by Sara504

Look, when you take me to 4 bars and Ive had 3 shots of wild turkey, a lemon drop, and another cocktail.....I am confident as fuck!!

Wild turkey haha.. Next time try a 252 shot!

You might be confident as fuck, but at that time you are no longer insecure, and deff will fight for what you want.. And your ugliness isn't on your mind..

[F30lolz]

Originally Posted by Sara504

OK Update! I met up with Itailian Guido for 10 minutes. I literally only had time to say hi, hows it going and bye. And we are STILL texting!

Did he offer you steroids?

And did you tingle when you saw him?

[Joekerr]

Originally Posted by Sara504

OK Update! I met up with Itailian Guido for 10 minutes. I literally only had time to say hi, hows it going and bye. And we are STILL texting!

Yeah. You were too with the lawyer this soon after. Oh boy...I'm not sure which story is better - Sara's or the Revartr story.

I feel more sympathy for Revatr though....Sara's lesson has been taught to her many times, and although as a human being, she is unique among species to be able to learn from her mistakes as well as other's mistakes, she seems remarkably disinclined to do so.

Which is interesting.

I feel like this thread might be really good for some undergrad pysch class to analyze and report on as part of their course. Human behavior and all that.

[ASBSECU E93]

Originally Posted by Joekerr

Yeah. You were too with the lawyer this soon after. Oh boy...I'm not sure which story is better - Sara's or the Revartr story.

I feel more sympathy for Revatr though....Sara's lesson has been taught to her many times, and although as a human being, she is unique among species to be able to learn from her mistakes as well as other's mistakes, she seems remarkably disinclined to do so.

Which is interesting.

I feel like this thread might be really good for some undergrad pysch class to analyze and report on as part of their course. Human behavior and all that.

^This. It is insane to repeat the same actions and expect a different result.

Fool me once - Shame on you.
Fool me twice - Shame on me.

[Sara]

Originally Posted by Joekerr

Yeah. You were too with the lawyer this soon after. Oh boy...I'm not sure which story is better - Sara's or the Revartr story.

I feel more sympathy for Revatr though....Sara's lesson has been taught to her many times, and although as a human being, she is unique among species to be able to learn from her mistakes as well as other's mistakes, she seems remarkably disinclined to do so.

Which is interesting.

I feel like this thread might be really good for some undergrad pysch class to analyze and report on as part of their course. Human behavior and all that.

and the attorney texted me today.....

[Revartr]

Originally Posted by Sara504

and the attorney texted me today.....

JUST STOP.

[Vanmarsenille]

Originally Posted by Alfisti

My 2c.

Here goes, no offence intended.

From this and other threads I can't shake the feeling that you're emotionally immature and incredibly insecure. The child co-sleeping is as much, if not more, for you than it is for the child, it's a soothing and security mechanism.

You walked headlong into a terrible relationship that you either knew was going to be bad but did not have the self-control to listen to your stomach or you simply clung onto the first man that paid enough attention to you.

You need to be loved, need to be wanted, the suggestive signature image, the posting images of yourself on a male dominated forum, the leaping into a bad relationship, the chasing of an apparently uninterested man and the co-sleeping all point in this direction.

My absolutely unqualified advice, stop dating, go see a psychiatrist and get to the bottom of why you feel and behave this way, until you sort this out you're just going to get burnt and burnt by the worst kind of people.

You need to understand your own emotions and why you're feeling the way you are. Understand yourself first, the rest will come and you will be happy.

Good Luck.

This^^^.

[AceOnShake]

Originally Posted by fleeked

come hither, Sara, my dear, I will make your clit scream beyond comprehension

[whats77inaname]

21 pages in 3 days....

[BayMoWe335]

Drinking and going to bars for a date is for losers.

[hongsc]

Originally Posted by BayMoWe335

Drinking and going to bars for a date is for losers.

How about at a bar, picking up random chick for sexy time in the bathroom, not knowing her name *most likely Becky*, and it involves a Jolly Rancher?

[Taskmaster]

What the hell happened on Page 15, 16 and 17?

[Taskmaster]

And 18 and 19...

[Never Convicted]

I can't promise, but I'm pretty sure that an attention whore with 18000 posts saying the same thing will take all of your sage advice to heart and change who she is...and it will be because of YOU! So, you got that going for you.

[BayMoWe335]

Originally Posted by Never Convicted

I can't promise, but I'm pretty sure that an attention whore with 18000 posts saying the same thing will take all of your sage advice to heart and change who she is...and it will be because of YOU! So, you got that going for you.

And yet no one really knows what she looks like yet flocks to her like flies on poop. She's a typical Instagram professional...never posts full body, face, or pics without filter.

She loves the attention and everyone gives it to her.

[BMW F22]

Originally Posted by BayMoWe335

And yet no one really knows what she looks like yet flocks to her like flies on poop. She's a typical Instagram professional...never posts full body, face, or pics without filter.

She loves the attention and everyone gives it to her.

I've noticed this and hence I never care enough to do any leg humping on this forum. Honestly, I would never date someone who puts a guy she barely knows before her child. I usually ignore her threads but this one was interesting. IIRC she's slept around with a few members on here, moved to Socal, got preggo, and now probably looking for the next sugar daddy. Yuck...

[MrPrena]

YUP!
I would say to some forum members here "Welcome to internet!"
It is like looking at the Alibaba/craigslist auction/sales thread, and you do not know what you are really getting.

Even Wendy's hamburger looks delicious on the picture, but it doesn't even look 10% good in real life.

Why a car forum? show off that you just got the Ferrari 458 Speciale?
My advice to guys who tries to pick up women on car forum.

I say this before and now.
You are better off getting a real deal hotties at Wilshire business district who ACTUALLY have a fairly decent career/job/money+ hotties. At least you know how they really look like+ what they do for a living.

Originally Posted by BayMoWe335

And yet no one really knows what she looks like yet flocks to her like flies on poop. She's a typical Instagram professional...never posts full body, face, or pics without filter.

She loves the attention and everyone gives it to her.

Originally Posted by BMW F22

I've noticed this and hence I never care enough to do any leg humping on this forum. Honestly, I would never date someone who puts a guy she barely knows before her child. I usually ignore her threads but this one was interesting. IIRC she's slept around with a few members on here, moved to Socal, got preggo, and now probably looking for the next sugar daddy. Yuck...

[Lups]

Originally Posted by BMW F22

I've noticed this and hence I never care enough to do any leg humping on this forum. Honestly, I would never date someone who puts a guy she barely knows before her child. I usually ignore her threads but this one was interesting. IIRC she's slept around with a few members on here, moved to Socal, got preggo, and now probably looking for the next sugar daddy. Yuck...

Here are a few observations you may be overlooking.

* Life is a process. We develope in a different pace and I can tell you for sure that many females just stop developing themselves and leave all responsibilities to men because you let us do so.

* if one hangs out on a car forum/ with car crew, likes us freaks, she will also date them. In a world such as this, a forum, nothing is forgotten but I wouldn't say having a particular interest in cars and liking the car guy type makes anyone any worse or better. A past known by many, and still sticking around suggest her being stronger than many of us. I'd say the people who marry their first date partner are the only ones who can throw stones in this.

* Having kids doesn't actually mean we want only to hang around waiting for death. It takes more courage most people have to leave a bad relationship after kids and you forgot to credit her for that in your negative post.

All in all, wanting a relationship is something most of us want. Hell, I spent two hours today explaining to a good friend of mine who is a car guy why and how my life sucks. Key word there being a friend, but that says a lot about my social circles. Why would Sara's be any different?

[BMW F22]

I don't know her and I don't care to. I was simply stating what I have seen and heard. I am very old fashioned so certain things stood out to me (as I'm sure it does to many on here). I'm not calling her names or anything; and I certainly did not say or imply that once people have kids they'd just wait around for death. I just believe people need to be more responsible and should always put their kids first.

[Lups]

Originally Posted by BMW F22

I don't know her and I don't care to. I was simply stating what I have seen and heard. I am very old fashioned so certain things stood out to me (as I'm sure it does to many on here). I'm not calling her names or anything; and I certainly did not say or imply that once people have kids they'd just wait around for death. I just believe people need to be more responsible and should always put their kids first.

I'm pretty old fashioned too, in many ways but just because you didn't use a word, doesn't mean one wasn't implied. Sara and I see eye to eye in about nothing according to few of the posts I've read here in the ot, but her daughter was born in the summer, she took one night off from being a parent and went out to be a kid again. Its a mind-blowing thing to realize you're facing world alone with a child. I'd probably do this too.

This is a car forum. I would be quite shocked if she handed out breast feeding tips here instead of acting like you guys expect her to act.