[MKSixer]

Originally Posted by premier3is

Thanks. I actually had another date lined up for next week with another girl I met. Not really a fan of her, she look OK on her pics and can't hold a convo for shit, better yet engage in one. Would just go and try to bang her anyways. Was just talking to her to keep options open as people suggested lol, since I thought things would work out well between me and the girl who stringed me along :/

Not sure if I want to go next week anymore tbh man.

If you aren't feeling it, don't go. Listen to your instincts about this. Your subconscious knows what you want more than your conscious mind. Listen to your gut and your instincts. It will save you a lot of trouble.

Good luck-mk

[premier3is]

Originally Posted by MKSixer

If you aren't feeling it, don't go. Listen to your instincts about this. Your subconscious knows what you want more than your conscious mind. Listen to your gut and your instincts. It will save you a lot of trouble.

Good luck-mk

Agreed. I'm sure FuriouslyFast will jump in and disagree and tell me to go bang her and bounce lol! As indeed I should

[FuriouslyFast]

Originally Posted by premier3is

Thanks. I actually had another date lined up for next week with another girl I met. Not really a fan of her, she look OK on her pics and can't hold a convo for shit, better yet engage in one. Would just go and try to bang her anyways. Was just talking to her to keep options open as people suggested lol, since I thought things would work out well between me and the girl who stringed me along :/

Not sure if I want to go next week anymore tbh man.

Doing it wrong. I use my pool table & air hockey table as my gimmick for those types. If they don't wanna come to my place, I move on. Not interested in leaving my home for that bs.

Also, pics?

[pennsiveguy]

Originally Posted by MKSixer

I'm friends with everyone I date. Prerequisite. If I don't like her, I won't date her...no matter how hot. I've dumped 10's and 11's because they were toxic, needy, gold-diggery, etc.

+1 for mandatory friendship

I want to hang out with friends, or if they're not a friend yet then they have to at least be friendly. If I wouldn't want them as a friend, then I don't want to date them either.

And if they're not friendly, they don't get to meet The Legend.

[FuriouslyFast]

Originally Posted by pennsiveguy

+1 for mandatory friendship

I want to hang out with friends, or if they're not a friend yet then they have to at least be friendly. If I wouldn't want them as a friend, then I don't want to date them either.

And if they're not friendly, they don't get to meet The Legend.

I'm not understanding why you guys have to be friends with someone you just see for sex. Do it & send her home or leave if you're at her place.

Not everyone is going to be or has to be your "friend" Based on this thread, we all know most of them are mindless cunts anyway. Is that the kind of friend you need?

Now, I am obviously not including women you view as LTR material or go out & do fun stuff with.

[UncleWede]

Who says "locker room" talk doesn't exist??????

[pennsiveguy]

Originally Posted by FuriouslyFast

I'm not understanding why you guys have to be friends with someone you just see for sex. Do it & send her home or leave if you're at her place.

Not everyone is going to be or has to be your "friend" Based on this thread, we all know most of them are mindless cunts anyway. Is that the kind of friend you need?

Now, I am obviously not including women you view as LTR material or go out & do fun stuff with.

I got my share of casual sex in the '80s and '90s. I played in bands in the bars around the Midwest, and took advantage of the various social opportunities that came my way. But I was drunk most of the time, so I was numb to the pointlessness of it all. I just can't do it now. I don't have any moral objection to it, it just stopped being fun or exciting a long time ago.

[cmyx6go]

I asked once before if he was as charming in person as he is online. I'm thinking yes.....

[pennsiveguy]

Originally Posted by cmyx6go

I asked once before if he was as charming in person as he is online. I'm thinking yes.....

Who knows...maybe he gets his anger release by posting here on BP. You can never tell how closely someone's online "personality" matches their face-to-face personality. Some people seem to craft an online persona that's an alter ego or perhaps an idealized version of themselves.

Several years ago I was a couple months into dating a really articulate and interesting woman when she introduced me to her online persona. She had adopted the term "Amygdala Whisperer" for this persona and it was as woo-y as it sounds. I was shocked, and incredibly turned off. I subsequently discovered that previous to that she had "hung out her shingle" as an online relationship coach for hire. Currently I'm told she's trying to carve herself out a niche as some sort of emotional coach for new or soon-to-be retirees. Mind you, she has no training or credentials or legitimate experience as a counselor; she's written a bunch of blog posts that nobody ever read, so that's out...even if they had been read. I guess when you're a narcissist (she ticked all the boxes on that) you just know stuff. You don't need to train or study, because you already know it all. I dumped her right after that shocking revelation. I later found out she had an autistic son in another state whom she had left there with his dad when he was 12 to re-unite with her old high school boyfriend after running into him on Facebook. She was a real piece of work, that one.

My point is, someone's online persona (or personae) may be shockingly different from their "real" personality...if they even still have an intact and integral one.

[FuriouslyFast]

Originally Posted by pennsiveguy

I got my share of casual sex in the '80s and '90s. I played in bands in the bars around the Midwest, and took advantage of the various social opportunities that came my way. But I was drunk most of the time, so I was numb to the pointlessness of it all. I just can't do it now. I don't have any moral objection to it, it just stopped being fun or exciting a long time ago.

Makes perfect sense & I can certainly relate.

[FuriouslyFast]

Originally Posted by cmyx6go

I asked once before if he was as charming in person as he is online. I'm thinking yes.....

Who are you referring to?

[premier3is]

Originally Posted by FuriouslyFast

Who are you referring to?

I am going to assume she means you LMAO?

[FuriouslyFast]

Originally Posted by premier3is

I am going to assume she means you LMAO?

Then it looks like a classic case of pot meet kettle & outing herself as quite judgmental & self-righteous. Don't know why she has a hard on for me nor do I care. She's on my ignore list now. Bye Felicia!

[pennsiveguy]

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[premier3is]

This has to be my fav thread in Bimmerpost. Everyone relates in one way or another, gives reassurance, and everyone is chill af lol!

Cheers to everyone here !!!

[pennsiveguy]

Originally Posted by premier3is

This has to be my fav thread in Bimmerpost. Everyone relates in one way or another, gives reassurance, and everyone is chill af lol!

Cheers to everyone here !!!

Yeah, we're brought together by hardship I suppose you could say - the wild roller coaster ride of dating. I'm happy to have a space to talk about it. Folks here are thoughtful and funny and supportive. I'm very grateful for this.

[upstatedoc]

Originally Posted by pennsiveguy

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shouldn't that be a pic of rodney king?

[upstatedoc]

going to a new eye-talian restaurant with my honey for VD tonight. some wine, pasta, something parmigiana and then sausage later.

[pennsiveguy]

Originally Posted by upstatedoc

going to a new eye-talian restaurant with my honey for VD tonight. some wine, pasta, something parmigiana and then sausage later.

"Take the canoli."
- Clemenza

[Matt@EuroJerks]

Originally Posted by upstatedoc

going to a new eye-talian restaurant with my honey for VD tonight. some wine, pasta, something parmigiana and then sausage later.

Filling her holes with cannoli cream....ATTA BOY!!!!

[FuriouslyFast]

Originally Posted by pennsiveguy

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You have to ask cmx

[FuriouslyFast]

Originally Posted by pennsiveguy

Yeah, we're brought together by hardship I suppose you could say - the wild roller coaster ride of dating. I'm happy to have a space to talk about it. Folks here are thoughtful and funny and supportive. I'm very grateful for this.

Except for me, I'm the villain.

Do I get a cool comic book villain name now then?