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      02-26-2020, 09:33 PM   #5413
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Long story - but the tension was in the air for a long time. Her friends are getting married and having kids and I was spending time researching ceramic coating/ppf for my new car and planning ski trips with guys.

Two days ago I made a comment regarding dinner and she lost it... She slept in the guest bedroom and next day packed her suitcase and is staying at the hotel... Don't think I can save this one.
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Sounds like there's a lot that's been bugging her building up for a while. Maybe she'll cool down and you can talk through things.
Well...

MK wants to see a picture of her sleeping on the couch
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Well...

Just what exactly were you hoping for pics of? A summons? A gaping head wound?
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Long story - but the tension was in the air for a long time. Her friends are getting married and having kids and I was spending time researching ceramic coating/ppf for my new car and planning ski trips with guys.

Two days ago I made a comment regarding dinner and she lost it... She slept in the guest bedroom and next day packed her suitcase and is staying at the hotel... Don't think I can save this one.
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Just what exactly were you hoping for pics of? A summons? A gaping head wound?
Yes.
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Cut this coffee shit out, kids!! Meet for a drink!
LOL.....I don't drink.

Plus coffee can be an early morning meeting. If you don't like her, you haven't wasted your entire day!
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Cut this coffee shit out, kids!! Meet for a drink!
I'm cautious to do this unless it's someone I know already for a few reasons.

1. If I'm drinking I'm more likely to just wanna bang even if there is no way I'd want to date her

2. I had a friend in college who went for a drink with a girl, they hooked up, and later on she wanted a relationship but he did not. She accused him of getting her drunk and taking advantage of her, which ended up turning into a huge drawn out thing that caused him a lot of issues legally and reputation wise. He eventually won and was innocent, but seeing what he went through I want zero possibility of that happening, you never know how crazy people are.
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I'm cautious to do this unless it's someone I know already for a few reasons.

1. If I'm drinking I'm more likely to just wanna bang even if there is no way I'd want to date her
How much are you drinking sir, damn?

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2. I had a friend in college who went for a drink with a girl, they hooked up, and later on she wanted a relationship but he did not. She accused him of getting her drunk and taking advantage of her, which ended up turning into a huge drawn out thing that caused him a lot of issues legally and reputation wise. He eventually won and was innocent, but seeing what he went through I want zero possibility of that happening, you never know how crazy people are.
It's 2020, don't need alcohol for women to try this bs. Don't be paranoid, just aware.
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LOL.....I don't drink.

Plus coffee can be an early morning meeting. If you don't like her, you haven't wasted your entire day!
Morning meeting? You guys are crazy. I am not a morning person at all. I'd like to at least be somewhat mentally present

Also, I work normal M-F hours & I use my early weekend hours to relax & then get projects done
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Why did you get banned from Match?
The 1st time was likely some cunt reported me for being an ugly guy messaging her. Ever since it's probably just when they finally see it's me again. I'm not doing anything wrong. F em
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You right I'll have her drive to me.

Also, I didn't meet earlier since she was flying to the east coast to be with her family for 2 weeks.

Trust me I would've met her immediately if I could've, don't want to waste my time. Trying to set something up soon possibly. And no I didn't give her my real number yet, I gave her the burner number haha.

For those who don't know 'textnow' is a free app which you can have a second number. One of the few ones that actually works without having to pay. Thank me later boyz lol.
I have been doing that for years...with a Google Voice #. Also free
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I place them in this order based on experience.

Zoosk
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Tinder

The Zoosk interface is very simple which, I believe, encourages women to use it.
Tell us about elite singles
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Higher end women. Cost more. Good results.
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How much are you drinking sir, damn?



It's 2020, don't need alcohol for women to try this bs. Don't be paranoid, just aware.
1. A lot

2. Of course not, but this particular woman/girl/evil troll went to the bar and got the bartender to say he saw them there, etc. The less ammunition the better. The biggest issue for the guy I knew was when this girl posted on social media that "so and so got me drunk and then raped me" everyone just assumes guilty until proven innocent. It didn't help that he was really into fitness and pretty jacked, and as one girl posted "looks like a guy who would do that".
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Long story - but the tension was in the air for a long time. Her friends are getting married and having kids and I was spending time researching ceramic coating/ppf for my new car and planning ski trips with guys.

Two days ago I made a comment regarding dinner and she lost it... She slept in the guest bedroom and next day packed her suitcase and is staying at the hotel... Don't think I can save this one.
She's one of those types. Just run
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I have had VERY good success with Zoosk. Like anything, it depends on dedication to utilization.

The hot one who was very strange whom I recently met was met on Zoosk. I call that one a mixed success. I've met regional models and regional actresses on Zoosk. One of the Latinas I met was even on Telemundo and had a few roles in a very popular drama. She was also batshit crazy and mean a fuq. UncleWede tried to warn me off but, dat azz!!

Match denizens are too standoffish.
I'm not attractive enough to meet this caliber of woman.
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1. A lot

2. Of course not, but this particular woman/girl/evil troll went to the bar and got the bartender to say he saw them there, etc. The less ammunition the better. The biggest issue for the guy I knew was when this girl posted on social media that "so and so got me drunk and then raped me" everyone just assumes guilty until proven innocent. It didn't help that he was really into fitness and pretty jacked, and as one girl posted "looks like a guy who would do that".
Get some self-control w/the booze then.

Your story reminded me of 1 of my own from 10+ years ago. Met a girl through a friend and we ended up back at my place. Making out, her shirt ends up off & she freaks out & wants to leave. Fine, bye.

Fast forward a week or 2 later & I'm out with my friend at a bar & she's there with her friends. She's telling everyone I'm the guy that tried to rape her. GTFO you psycho. You can ruin someone's life with that shit. Thankfully, that's as far as it went.
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Higher end women. Cost more. Good results.
Cost more than the $70 for a few months of Match? Oof!

Higher end aka they are looking for men with money? I'm out!
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Get some self-control w/the booze then.

Your story reminded me of 1 of my own from 10+ years ago. Met a girl through a friend and we ended up back at my place. Making out, her shirt ends up off & she freaks out & wants to leave. Fine, bye.

Fast forward a week or 2 later & I'm out with my friend at a bar & she's there with her friends. She's telling everyone I'm the guy that tried to rape her. GTFO you psycho. You can ruin someone's life with that shit. Thankfully, that's as far as it went.
Haha I actually rarely drink. But yes that's exactly the shit I'm talking about, especially these days with the cancel culture. Are there some creepy assholes that should be thrown in jail? Absolutely, but a guy shouldn't lose his career because he tried to kiss you thinking things were going well after a date 10 years ago.
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Haha I actually rarely drink. But yes that's exactly the shit I'm talking about, especially these days with the cancel culture. Are there some creepy assholes that should be thrown in jail? Absolutely, but a guy shouldn't lose his career because he tried to kiss you thinking things were going well after a date 10 years ago.
No, the bar thing was 2 weeks or so after I met her, not 10 years later lol
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Higher end women. Cost more. Good results.
There's also those women who think they are higher end, when they clearly aren't.
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Cost more than the $70 for a few months of Match? Oof!

Higher end aka they are looking for men with money? I'm out!
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But let's be clear I'm NOT a gold digger.
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Get some self-control w/the booze then.

Your story reminded me of 1 of my own from 10+ years ago. Met a girl through a friend and we ended up back at my place. Making out, her shirt ends up off & she freaks out & wants to leave. Fine, bye.

Fast forward a week or 2 later & I'm out with my friend at a bar & she's there with her friends. She's telling everyone I'm the guy that tried to rape her. GTFO you psycho. You can ruin someone's life with that shit. Thankfully, that's as far as it went.
Did you take off her shirt or did she?
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