dealing with a break up?

ddk632 · 08-06-2014, 10:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Billup

African BBW willing to suck you off until the Detroit Lions win the Super Bowl.

Famous Billup illustration or it didn't happen!

westchester335i · 08-06-2014, 01:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Billup

I found one on craigslist for $50 last night. $220 seems pretty steep, you need to filter your searches.

African BBW willing to suck you off until the Detroit Lions win the super bowl.

Sounded like a good deal to me.

CL is a good way to get HIV, shot, robbed, etc, etc. BP is a better bet.

m3ray · 08-06-2014, 07:50 PM

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Originally Posted by westchester335i

CL is a good way to get HIV, shot, robbed, etc, etc. BP is a better bet.

Have had great luck on CL. Just sold my used DVD player yesterday…never ordered an African BBW though.

John 070 · 08-06-2014, 08:21 PM

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Originally Posted by MrPrena

Breakup sucks. I don't like it, because those time I spent on gf becomes [almost] total waste.

I would find a date from work, social media, website, social gathering, etc, and start arrange bunch of date. It is number game. You will be so busy with setting up time with new dates that you will forget about her.

Women usually break up differently than we do. When they are about to breakup, they tend to set sh1t up before full breakup. WHat I did during 20s are, IF I even sense or smell a breakup, I start setting up dates. It was easier back then. No FB. Best was Blogspot and Blog sites.

Lol your advice is similar to my dad's, when I was single. At one point I was dating 3 hotties, and it was stressful. I messed up once and lost two at the same time. It was a relief, but a bummer too. My buddy said I wouldn't have been able to keep that up forever. All kidding aside it's amusing looking back, and I would tell my son to do the same.

m3ray · 08-06-2014, 08:27 PM

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Originally Posted by John 070

My buddy said I wouldn't have been able to keep it up forever.

Not forever but Cialis will net you at least 36 hours.

Eat.Sleep.Race · 08-07-2014, 05:00 PM

Fuck some sluts and go gambling at the casinos, Works well IMO

ncarter124 · 08-07-2014, 05:55 PM

Feel better?

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Originally Posted by Eat.Sleep.Race

Fuck some sluts and go gambling at the casinos, Works well IMO

davis449 · 08-07-2014, 05:57 PM

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Originally Posted by ncarter124

Feel better?

You couldn't even have the stock e46 WITH a GF...LMFAO! I mean, you might be able to obtain the car, but you couldn't keep it maintained enough to drive it regularly.

ncarter124 · 08-07-2014, 06:00 PM

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Originally Posted by davis449

You couldn't even have the stock e46 WITH a GF...LMFAO! I mean, you might be able to obtain the car, but you couldn't keep it maintained enough to drive it regularly.

Lol, true story.

Nkc · 08-07-2014, 06:09 PM

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Originally Posted by m3ray

Not forever but Cialis will net you at least 36 hours.

Have to disagree. 18 hours max.

m3ray · 08-07-2014, 07:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Nkc

Have to disagree. 18 hours max.

Could be..results vary

P1 · 08-08-2014, 01:20 AM

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Originally Posted by m3ray

Could be..results vary

Don't you guys have shit to do?

m3ray · 08-08-2014, 01:49 AM

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Originally Posted by P1et

Don't you guys have shit to do?

Why so irritable?

Did you get less than 18 hours

Razzy · 08-08-2014, 10:26 PM

On topic - I am in a similar situation as the OP. I was with my SO who was a model (sorry had to throw that in there for context) for nearly a year and things started going sour for me. Too many differences in terms of lifestyle, background, future etc. Perhaps I was a bit too harsh but it was too much for me and I had to think of the future. I tried and I tried to overcome but it was one thing after another. We all have our issues but her's took the cake.

I called it off after a LOT of patience and thinking and reveling in the misery. I just felt it wasn't doing her or me any favours by going any further. The honeymoon period was over.

I cut complete contact with her. No number, no social networking, had no mutual friends, no pics or anything. Went cold turkey after we broke up.

It has been 5 months since we broke up and surprisingly once I called it off I was doing decent and holding up okay. She was likely going through a harder time.

But this last month it's like it all came back to me, all at once. The grief, loneliness, the reminiscing of the good times and the past and what we had and shared. We did love each other that much I know, and I find it hard to not think of her now when I'm not occupied with anything else. It's quite torturous really. She's from NYC and hell even anything to do with NYC comes up in the news or even a tv show (I'm in the financial industryso NYC is always at the forefront FUCK) makes me feel like sitting in a corner and shooting myself.

I caved recently and went on her Instagram and Facebook. Both are set to private but even seeing the cover pic/display picture of her was enough to make my insides turn. Needless to say my heartstrings are tugging even more.

I ask myself, how am I supposed to love someone else or spend my life with anyone else. Even the thought of another woman makes me sick.

I am blessed to have a lot of things in life. Sadly I'm not doing too well in the health and love/relationship department anymore.

grimlock · 08-09-2014, 12:20 AM

^

Razzy · 08-09-2014, 01:41 AM

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Originally Posted by grimlock

^

Why you doin' this to me broo!!

Lups · 08-09-2014, 02:01 AM

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Originally Posted by Nkc

Masturbate
/thread

I'm sitting in an airport in Denver, and these guys are serious fucks, and boring as hell, and now I'm explaining to them with as many words I know how masturbating has real health benefits.

You made me laugh out loud, just wanted you to know I have three really awkward looking men around me. I'll keep reading more of this then.

OP sorry for your heart break, relationships suck. From personal experience listen to NKC, keep on driving and do something different.

e92proper · 08-10-2014, 02:22 AM

Jump on a online dating site, not a good one, one that's free like POF. Worked for me when I got out of a 3 year relationship, dated a couple chicks and actually found my current GF on there. I mean there are some whores on there yes, but my GF ended up being highly educated and has a sick career, so you never know man. Enjoy the single life and just get out there.

Best to be with friends when the shit hits the fan too

Nkc · 08-10-2014, 02:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Lups

I'm sitting in an airport in Denver, and these guys are serious fucks, and boring as hell, and now I'm explaining to them with as many words I know how masturbating has real health benefits.

You made me laugh out loud, just wanted you to know I have three really awkward looking men around me. I'll keep reading more of this then.

OP sorry for your heart break, relationships suck. From personal experience listen to NKC, keep on driving and do something different.

My advice, although childish can actually be backed up by scientific proof I have no intention of searching for. If you ever miss the girl that you just broke up with, fap one out and tell me that you still miss her. What can you lose?

Lups · 08-10-2014, 10:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Nkc

My advice, although childish can actually be backed up by scientific proof I have no intention of searching for. If you ever miss the girl that you just broke up with, fap one out and tell me that you still miss her. What can you lose?

I know, the situation still was pretty funny.

carve · 08-11-2014, 04:48 PM

Self improvement

Be honest about anything you could've done better in the relationship and improve those aspects of yourself. Improve the things you're already good at too...set goals...grow a six pack...learn to be smooth with women in order to gain the confidence that you'll be OK, and will be in the future, too. It's amazing how much confidence it gives to have a bunch of women chasing you...having your pic of who shares your bed that night. Date a lot of different types of women as an experiment

Basically, make yourself the kind of guy women fight over. Make it your goal to make your ex regret having left you. It's not as hard as you might think

I recommend buying a book called "Models" by mark manson. Changed my life after a bad break up. "Sex at Dawn" is also great for understanding human sexual dynamics.

Also, beating off too much reduces your sexual ambition

One more thing: if you're extradorinarily broken up, talk to a therapist. I think everyone should at some point.

Razzy · 08-11-2014, 07:14 PM

Not all of us want to be womanizers though. Self improvement is key of course but I find that everyone keeps pointing out the "get more tail, and get the tail to chase you" line far too often.

I guess I'm a conservative and laid back type of guy who wants stability along with trust and commitment. Having similar values and beliefs is a must as well.

I will be posting up my own personal predicament After breaking up and how I feel shortly.

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Razzy Lieutenant 262 Rep 509 Posts Drives: N/A Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Ontario, Canada iTrader: (0)	On topic - I am in a similar situation as the OP. I was with my SO who was a model (sorry had to throw that in there for context) for nearly a year and things started going sour for me. Too many differences in terms of lifestyle, background, future etc. Perhaps I was a bit too harsh but it was too much for me and I had to think of the future. I tried and I tried to overcome but it was one thing after another. We all have our issues but her's took the cake. I called it off after a LOT of patience and thinking and reveling in the misery. I just felt it wasn't doing her or me any favours by going any further. The honeymoon period was over. I cut complete contact with her. No number, no social networking, had no mutual friends, no pics or anything. Went cold turkey after we broke up. It has been 5 months since we broke up and surprisingly once I called it off I was doing decent and holding up okay. She was likely going through a harder time. But this last month it's like it all came back to me, all at once. The grief, loneliness, the reminiscing of the good times and the past and what we had and shared. We did love each other that much I know, and I find it hard to not think of her now when I'm not occupied with anything else. It's quite torturous really. She's from NYC and hell even anything to do with NYC comes up in the news or even a tv show (I'm in the financial industryso NYC is always at the forefront FUCK) makes me feel like sitting in a corner and shooting myself. I caved recently and went on her Instagram and Facebook. Both are set to private but even seeing the cover pic/display picture of her was enough to make my insides turn. Needless to say my heartstrings are tugging even more. I ask myself, how am I supposed to love someone else or spend my life with anyone else. Even the thought of another woman makes me sick. I am blessed to have a lot of things in life. Sadly I'm not doing too well in the health and love/relationship department anymore.
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e92proper Banned 47 Rep 531 Posts Drives: 2011 e92 335 / 2013 X3 Join Date: Jun 2014 Location: NJ/NY/MD iTrader: (0)	Jump on a online dating site, not a good one, one that's free like POF. Worked for me when I got out of a 3 year relationship, dated a couple chicks and actually found my current GF on there. I mean there are some whores on there yes, but my GF ended up being highly educated and has a sick career, so you never know man. Enjoy the single life and just get out there. Best to be with friends when the shit hits the fan too
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carve Major 190 Rep 1,105 Posts Drives: 335i Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: usa iTrader: (0)	Self improvement Be honest about anything you could've done better in the relationship and improve those aspects of yourself. Improve the things you're already good at too...set goals...grow a six pack...learn to be smooth with women in order to gain the confidence that you'll be OK, and will be in the future, too. It's amazing how much confidence it gives to have a bunch of women chasing you...having your pic of who shares your bed that night. Date a lot of different types of women as an experiment Basically, make yourself the kind of guy women fight over. Make it your goal to make your ex regret having left you. It's not as hard as you might think I recommend buying a book called "Models" by mark manson. Changed my life after a bad break up. "Sex at Dawn" is also great for understanding human sexual dynamics. Also, beating off too much reduces your sexual ambition One more thing: if you're extradorinarily broken up, talk to a therapist. I think everyone should at some point. Last edited by carve; 08-11-2014 at 09:14 PM..
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Razzy Lieutenant 262 Rep 509 Posts Drives: N/A Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Ontario, Canada iTrader: (0)	Not all of us want to be womanizers though. Self improvement is key of course but I find that everyone keeps pointing out the "get more tail, and get the tail to chase you" line far too often. I guess I'm a conservative and laid back type of guy who wants stability along with trust and commitment. Having similar values and beliefs is a must as well. I will be posting up my own personal predicament After breaking up and how I feel shortly.
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