[rchanou]

jkcali,
what's she doing outside the kitchen?

[mava330]

Listen to Bella… a girl with a dood’s ( ) point of view!! Hahaha

Seriously… you’re your own man… you ultimately live and die by your beliefs. Who are any of us to “impart our beliefs” on you? At the end of the day is your relationship with her worth more than your core values of what’s important to you? This is the true risk vs. rewards paradigm.

6 months into this relationship and you’re coming across this. That’s a great thing in my book. Because if at the end things don’t turn out you’ve only lost that (short) period of time; be thankful that years of your life and/or marriage and/or children aren’t playing a role in here (yet).

Good luck jkcali2000.

[shimshimhada]

Originally Posted by rchanou

jkcali,
what's she doing outside the kitchen?

[noflash]

Unless you're at work, 2-4 hours is too much!!

[thedean786]

you're the fool for putting your car before your girl especially since it came second....

However, if you want to salvage this then listen to what she has to say and take things in moderation.

[magmd]

LOL! Man...you guys and bella are freaking cracking me up!!

Good luck...do what you feel is right.

However...you are setting a precedent for the remainder of the relationship. Its all about who controls what....and as bella said, so far she is dick..tating and your and being put into the bitch role.

But then again...don't take my advice...I am a Latino....I know what to say, and how to say it to make them feel special. I also know how to be a big asshole and squash their feelings to keep them subordinate. Its all about taking control of their psyche....if they understand they are expendable, they will never ask you to choose.

[Neil]

*high five for latinos*

[AWMSPORT]

I dont know, but maby find a hottie that is into cars also, and will help you mod your car??

[txusa03]

kick her to the curb....

[Ninjaneer]

umm... this thread's almost a year old guys

[NaTuReB0Y]

so, who won.........the car or the chick?

[Corey]

If you have to ask this question then just break up with her.

[MWcoupe]

me and my girl both got e90...so she loves it when im moddin my shit and e90postin....i make her hit up the meets with me too..

[shragon]

post back from the dead! missed this one! chick sounds wack!!

[2009BMW335]

lol i'd like to hear how this eventually turned out. my gf always gives me shit about being obsessive with cars and the internet, but she would never dump me over it.

[cm3rc]

Originally Posted by NaTuReB0Y

so, who won.........the car or the chick?

+1


haha reading all this makes me think of my gf.. but we compromise and i continue with the site.

[Victor.L3IchibanM3]

If she really love you she would not be bitching.... I think u better off with sum other gurl

[enwhykiid]

i would say that if you take the forum over her then you are a dumass

[jkcali2ooo]

Ummm this is over a yr old so since it was brought up I will re-address it. It apparently was a phase of hers and now we have moved on from it. She doesn't care anymore (particularly b/c I have since stopped w/ the mods). I enjoy checking this site to see the new updates especially the off-topic chats. The only thing that gets me is reading the posts where 335i people say how awesome their cars are... Makes me want to trade in. If only I had mucho dinero . Thanks to all for their advice and input.

[txusa03]

ah, i like a happy ending

[SES_D]

I ended up loving my car more than my girl




and that's the truth.

[Driv3r]

Ok, if shes hot, GO to HER house, have a crazy night of sex, i mean sweating your ass off....then slowly gather your belongings and say "im sorry, but my car is waiting outside, and im afraid its going to rain and such so ill be leaving for a drive, ill call you up sometime though"

then walk out and if she asks to come then stick your head back in the room and say real quickly " theres no space!" and dash out of the house as fast as you can....