[T0RM3NT]

Originally Posted by cmyx6go

I think there is a difference between shooting off your mouth and speaking your mind. I tell the truth, not what someone wants to hear.

I think the delivery is important. Also, I try to ask myself if there is any value to what I'm about to say? If what I'm about to say holds no value, I usually try to refrain. Telling a knucklehead that they're a knucklehead usually holds no value...nothing is gained.

[Esteban]

Originally Posted by T0RM3NT

I think the delivery is important. Also, I try to ask myself if there is any value to what I'm about to say? If what I'm about to say holds no value, I usually try to refrain. Telling a knucklehead that they're a knucklehead usually holds no value...nothing is gained.

Reminds me of...

"The saying "you attract more bees with honey than vinegar" is a proverb that means that it is better to be kind and gentle than to be harsh and aggressive. The saying is often used to encourage people to be more positive and less confrontational in their interactions with others."

[M_Six]

Originally Posted by Esteban

Reminds me of...

"The saying "you attract more bees with honey than vinegar" is a proverb that means that it is better to be kind and gentle than to be harsh and aggressive. The saying is often used to encourage people to be more positive and less confrontational in their interactions with others."

Unless the honey is rancid. I hate insincere kindness.

[Esteban]

Originally Posted by M_Six

Unless the honey is rancid. I hate insincere kindness.

Yes, I agree. Definitely gotta be real.

[Esteban]

Nothing wrong with being polite to people. I hate some asshat who is just rude for the sake of being rude, or they think it makes them look tough or cool. That’s what I think of when comparing honey to vinegar.

[JimmyTheHand]

Originally Posted by the_abe

How old is old?

When affordability isn't the reason you don't buy the faster model.

Or when you can afford that expensive sports car but buy the SUV as you know you'll struggle getting in/out of the sports car.

[sygazelle]

Originally Posted by JimmyTheHand

When affordability isn't the reason you don't buy the faster model.

Or when you can afford that expensive sports car but buy the SUV as you know you'll struggle getting in/out of the sports car.

^^^Absolutely. There is an indescribable feeling that comes with being at a certain age and maturity with sufficient resources to buy whatever you want (within reason) and choosing not to do so. There is no way properly explain this to a younger car enthusiast in terms they would appreciate. I know that when I was younger I didn't get it.

[M_Six]

Originally Posted by sygazelle

^^^Absolutely. There is an indescribable feeling that comes with being at a certain age and maturity with sufficient resources to buy whatever you want (within reason) and choosing not to do so. There is no way properly explain this to a younger car enthusiast in terms they would appreciate. I know that when I was younger I didn't get it.

I know a couple of guys my age in my area who have new Corvettes. They're sharp looking, but not my cup of tea. I had fun with my Z4 around 10 years ago, but I'm done with the sports driving thing now. I like mellow and relaxed.

[Llarry]

Originally Posted by M_Six

I know a couple of guys my age in my area who have new Corvettes. They're sharp looking, but not my cup of tea. I had fun with my Z4 around 10 years ago, but I'm done with the sports driving thing now. I like mellow and relaxed.

I know exactly what you mean. Buying a manual transmission car was important to me 2.5 years ago and I had a connection to get into a new M3 (my 4th over 20+ years) when the market was crazy. I still like my car but am actually thinking about selling it. I'd probably get a M440i Gran Coupe (with automatic) which is, in the grand scheme of things, no slouch. Not ready to drive in the fast lane with my left turn signal on for miles and miles at 10 under yet, but more relaxed.

Add to that I've been diagnosed with macular degeneration in my right eye and I'm now far from the sharpest knife in the drawer driving-wise. But it's OK -- life is good.

[dradernh]

Originally Posted by M_Six

I know a couple of guys my age in my area who have new Corvettes. They're sharp looking, but not my cup of tea. I had fun with my Z4 around 10 years ago, but I'm done with the sports driving thing now. I like mellow and relaxed.

I still use the wife's Mazda 3 as a DD in town, and it works well for me because it's responsive to inputs, parks easy, and feels 2/3 the size of my car while having the same exterior dimensions. Less importantly, and because it's not lowered, I also don't have to spread 2X4s to navigate it in and out of our driveway.

This has lead me to thinking I'd like a more mellow and relaxed car for around-town driving. (I tend to lean on the MZ3 pretty hard, and it wouldn't hurt to get away from that, especially now that I'm homing-in on 80.)

Due to having owned so many BMWs, I'm pretty much committed to them and am considering ditching the MZ3 for a 5 Series. I've owned two of them before: an E12 (ancient, I know) and an E39 (ancient now, too, but not to us oldsters, right!), and while I'm not much interested in any of the modern tech that comes with a new German car, I think the current and previous 5 Series' generations could work. I'm thinking a G30 M550i with its AWD and V-8 might be the best way to make the transition.

[M_Six]

Originally Posted by dradernh

I still use the wife's Mazda 3 as a DD in town, and it works well for me because it's responsive to inputs, parks easy, and feels 2/3 the size of my car while having the same exterior dimensions. Less importantly, and because it's not lowered, I also don't have to spread 2X4s to navigate it in and out of our driveway.

This has lead me to thinking I'd like a more mellow and relaxed car for around-town driving. (I tend to lean on the MZ3 pretty hard, and it wouldn't hurt to get away from that, especially now that I'm homing-in on 80.)

Due to having owned so many BMWs, I'm pretty much committed to them and am considering ditching the MZ3 for a 5 Series. I've owned two of them before: an E12 (ancient, I know) and an E39 (ancient now, too, but not to us oldsters, right!), and while I'm not much interested in any of the modern tech that comes with a new German car, I think the current and previous 5 Series' generations could work. I'm thinking a G30 M550i with its AWD and V-8 might be the best way to make the transition.

I miss actual shifters, even if they're for a slushbox. The pathetic POS sticking out of the side of the steering column on my GLC300 drives me nuts. Half the time it won't let me shift into reverse because my foot isn't pressing hard enough on the brake pedal. Then it gets into this warning mode that I have to let clear so I can try again. And pushing a button on the end of the stick to get into park? WTF? It also has this annoying collision avoidance warning thing that only tells me I'm passing by a mailbox. Doesn't make a peep if there is an actual collision threat in front of me. It's a comfortable ride and it's been paid up for years, so I keep it. But there are several things about it that get me thinking about a new vehicle every now and then. My fear is that I'll get back into car loan payments and then find that the new ride is worse than the GLC300.

My dream car would be my former E39 with modern Bluetooth electronics in it.

[Esteban]

Originally Posted by M_Six

My dream car would be my former E39 with modern Bluetooth electronics in it.

Beautiful car. Love that color too.

[M_Six]

Yeah, it was a beauty. Followed it up with a 740iL, also 2001. Special cars.

[sygazelle]

Originally Posted by M_Six

I miss actual shifters, even if they're for a slushbox. The pathetic POS sticking out of the side of the steering column on my GLC300 drives me nuts. Half the time it won't let me shift into reverse because my foot isn't pressing hard enough on the brake pedal. Then it gets into this warning mode that I have to let clear so I can try again. And pushing a button on the end of the stick to get into park? WTF? It also has this annoying collision avoidance warning thing that only tells me I'm passing by a mailbox. Doesn't make a peep if there is an actual collision threat in front of me. It's a comfortable ride and it's been paid up for years, so I keep it. But there are several things about it that get me thinking about a new vehicle every now and then. My fear is that I'll get back into car loan payments and then find that the new ride is worse than the GLC300.

My dream car would be my former E39 with modern Bluetooth electronics in it.

You just reminded me of another reason. I feel lucky that I'm old because I got to own a brand new 1997 BMW E39 540i followed by the impeccable 2003 E39 540i with M-tech package. Two great cars. I'd love to pick up a used one but I'm afraid of the issues that come with a 25 year old car. DGMW, new BMWs are amazing too, but there was something about that E39 that was special and it's great to be old enough to have owned it new and appreciate it 20+ years later.

[xander_g]

I would say that I am very grateful to have made it this far despite some really questionable decisions I have made in the past.

[sygazelle]

Originally Posted by xander_g

I would say that I am very grateful to have made it this far despite some really questionable decisions I have made in the past.

Apparently, cats are not the only ones with 9 lives. Glad you are still with us!!

[Esteban]

Originally Posted by sygazelle

Apparently, cats are not the only ones with 9 lives. Glad you are still with us!!

Definitely not the only ones. Having cats all my life that must be something I inherited from them.

[UncleWede]

I feel lucky to be old because I CAN drive manual. Both the 77 beetle bug and my soft tail custom two wheeler

[Esteban]

Originally Posted by UncleWede

I feel lucky to be old because I CAN drive manual. Both the 77 beetle bug and my soft tail custom two wheeler

My first car was a Bug. A ‘68 with a red and black paint job. Talked about that car before here. Loved it, it was so much fun. You guys know… remember that first car feeling? sygazelle knows what I mean.

[UncleWede]

Originally Posted by Esteban

My first car was a Bug. A ‘68 with a red and black paint job. Talked about that car before here. Loved it, it was so much fun. You guys know… remember that first car feeling? sygazelle knows what I mean.

SOME day I’ll get that first car back

70 Cougar, 351 Cleveland, sequential trigger turn signals for the back, and lever closure for front headlights

[UncleWede]

Lucky enough to have people worried if they see me on the ground, yet spry enough to still be able to choose getting down and getting back up.

Wife came home over the weekend, and I was laying on the flor of the garage. Nice and cool, knees bent with the back flat. I was sure to look over and smile as she drove in, so she wouldn't freak.

"I'm not paying you to lay on the ground, farmer-boy"

"You aren't paying me to anything"

[Esteban]

^ We we’re talking the other day, it was in the “you know you’re old when” thread, about the difficulty in getting up off the floor. Guess you’re not old enough to know what that feels like yet.