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05-23-2015, 09:18 PM | #837 |
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In on 20 page Sara thread.
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05-23-2015, 10:37 PM | #840 |
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Long Italian Sausage version..?
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05-23-2015, 10:38 PM | #841 |
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LOL.
Although the story will be so obvious, I hope she posts the full story after 2PM. My schedule is totally open, and going to browse forums till 3:30pm.
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She's lagging, that's for sure.
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I'm still in a session 16 hours later Love rush jobs because of the pay, but man am I tired
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05-24-2015, 10:52 AM | #846 |
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Ok, recap of Friday night. The really really long version lol
Eh...it was alright. I picked him up outside his house. I didn't feel comfortable leaving my car in his neighborhood. New Orleans is a very sketchy city. Especially the Quarter. So we went the movies. He complained about my driving saying his Grandma drives quicker than I do. (I'm thinking to myself, that's nice but I'd rather not crack a rim with these awful downtown roads) whatever I ignored him, parked and we went inside. I thought it was silly he asked to see the bottom of my shoes. "Oh you aren't wearing your fancy shoes huh?" He says. Um...... This guy has no clue about anything. We are seated inside and he hands me a menu, I'm not hungry so I don't order anything. He orders me alcohol anyway. During the previews they had an M&M commercial. I said "Oh I love M&M's" He pushes the button and orders them for me. First sweet things he's done all night. Well thanks. Movie starts. We watch it. Movie ends. As we are walking back to the car he complains about how much that movie sucked. I liked it. I thought it was good. Sure it wasn't super horror scary like I wanted but it wasn't bad. Back in my car we exit the garage and I ask him "Where to next?" He responds with that he didn't plan for anything else. Ok, well that tells me take him back to his house right? Ok so I head in that direction. Im not too familiar with the area so God forbid I miss the left turn and the next street is no left turn, since all the streets are one way streets downtown in this area. He's now accusing me of kidnapping him and I'm making him very uncomfortable at this point. I remember thinking "WTF?" All I did was miss the turn and have to go up two more streets you jackass. I am not kidnapping you. Idiot. There is no conversation at this point. I'm just driving along and he tells me to take another way. It puts us in front of this bar/lounge place I've never been. He wants us to go inside and my first thing to say is "Where is the valet?" I drive us to the hotel next to it and valet my car. We get out and go inside. Order a bunch of drinks. I'm trying to get to know him so I'm asking him about himself to which he responds with "Don't you think you're asking too much on a first date?" First of all this isn't our first date, we been to lunch twice and I picked him up from Audi the other day, but whatever. I told him "Look I'm just trying to get to know you! How else do I do this but to ask questions?" I mean SHEESH! He proceeds to tell me how high maintenance I am because I valet my car and didn't park it half on the street, half on the sidewalk like the Inifiniti G35 outfront, because I didn't want to go to his company's sea food festival last week with him because I said it was too hot, because when we got the bar I asked the bar tender where the hooks were for my purse. Um way to make the conversation awkward! All this while he's checking his phone, which I find so very rude. I tell him 3 times to put his phone away while we were out. Ugh, I ask him if we can go and he responds with "I'm good I can get my own way back to my house." What would that mean to any of you? That would mean he's telling you to leave right? So I get up to leave. At this point, I'm so aggravated I just want to go. He grabs my arm tells me to sit down! Fast forward an hour of drinking and more movie complaining by him to the bartender. We're ready to leave. There's one shot left on the bar of Wild Turkey that yes I ordered but I feel like I'm at my limit and I'd rather not take it. He looks at me and then looks at the bartender and asks if that's wasteful, to which the bartender replies "Oh that's a party foul." UGH!! WHATEVER!!! I shoot it just to make them both shut the hell up. He has to pee and I have to touch up my make up. So we both go to the restrooms. I swear I must have stayed in there for 10 minutes. I didn't want to go back out. So I took a photo of my shoes lol Anyone who knows Fashion knows these are more $$ and more fancy than any of my Loubs. And Fleeked, sweetheart look at the time stamp. You were wrong, I wasn't getting undressed at 10:27pm like you thought. Ok so I walk out of the Ladies restroom and there he is waiting for me. Sitting in a chair. The wild turkey has got me pretty plastered now. So what do I do? Freaking strut like I'm a VS model walking down the runway I guess he liked that. He grabs me and starts kissing me. Ok well, seems like the moods changed right? We finally leave and walk or stagger at this point back to my car. We get back to his place. I'm holding myself together extremely well. He asks if I want to come inside and meet his dog lol. Im buzzing so hard right now I know I cant drive at all. I had to say yes. His place is very nice. A lot nicer than I expected. His dog is soooooooo adorable. A little (well big acutally) boston terrior. That thing licked me to death. We order pizza at midnight to sober up. And I fell asleep an hour or so later. He was actually really nice at his house the whole time. Didn't complain about anything didn't make me feel uncomfortable. Needless to say open my eyes its fucking 6AM! I literally jumped up and left without saying goodbye. Was that wrong of me? So what are your thoughts? I have no expectations. I don't think I like him or not. Cat Lady for sure in my future |
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Can't believe that I read all 41 pages of this...
Back to the OP, Sara you need to get a grip. Focus on friends and family and yourself. Next step is stop being so shallow and stop going for that "certain look/type" It obviously hasn't worked out all so well in the past for you. Why be so narrow minded? Fat guy can lose weight, changing someone's horrible personality is impossible. Looks fade, gravity takes hold, you'll get there too one day. Hopefully you'll have someone next to you who cares more about you as a person than your looks. That or someone who can afford to pay for your botox. What do I know, I'm just a genius, billionaire, playboy, philanthropist.
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05-24-2015, 11:29 AM | #849 |
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You want to find someone with money to take care of you? Maybe marry you, have a couple more kids together, live in a big house and live happily ever after?
Get a head on your shoulders - stop dating meatheads - stop being attracted to ones occupation and stop talking about it on a car forum. You don't find successful people on Tinder, you find desperate, horny poor saps looking for a lay . The successful people are way to fucking busy for that nonsense. And for the record - to marry one of these "successful people" you better bring more to the table then just your looks. Otherwise they will only date you.
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05-24-2015, 11:51 AM | #850 | |
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Just a few observations.
Why bother to valet your car if you are going to drive it drunk? I do realize I'm stricter in this than most people but I would never go behind a wheel after more than half a pint or a few sips of wine. I'm sure those are very expensive shoes, so why not sell them and go into therapy which is highly needed before you take over the dating world again? The man let you drive after letting you drink. That alone says all there is to be said about his morals and his ways. For you to do this, to me it says enough about you. I'm done with this thread. I wish you the best of luck in life.
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05-24-2015, 11:56 AM | #851 |
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05-24-2015, 12:06 PM | #852 |
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Wow he sounds like an ass. I can't believe you didn't leave the date earlier!
He is good looking but yeeaaah, cut him off. And don't drink and drive.
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So let me get this straight. You let his dog lick you?
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05-24-2015, 12:29 PM | #854 |
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For fux sake Sara...may I please remind you that you're a mother now? I find you quite entertaining at times but girl, get your shit together, PLEASE!!!
Ask yourself if the night was actually worth it. If you're seriously still considering if this dude is alright then take Lups advice, sell those shoes and get therapy.
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05-24-2015, 12:30 PM | #855 |
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He was. I didn't drive. I would never drive buzzed or drunk. That's why I stayed for pizza. Where's the scissors emoji lol
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by dog she means "his penis"
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