Dating - Good/Bad Experiences

upstatedoc · 06-12-2021, 12:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Sara

I'm pausing these apps. Too many, I fear I may call someone the wrong call sign.

I'm partially blaming the sunglasses. Aviators look so good on men.

Well let's see. There's jester, Maverik, goose, ice man, slider, viper

Dang3r · 06-12-2021, 06:15 PM

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Originally Posted by dinonz

Dang3r - are you ok if I PM you to ask about foreign pilots flying in Germany (and Europe in general if you know) on a foreign license in a foreign registered plane?

Of course

Turkish Pickle · 06-13-2021, 09:31 AM

Sara: I don't like it when men ask me out so soon after we start talking

Also Sara: let me ask this man who just told me his occupation if he's down for drinks soon

fiveohwblow · 06-13-2021, 09:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Turkish Pickle

Sara: I don't like it when men ask me out so soon after we start talking

Also Sara: let me ask this man who just told me his occupation if he's down for drinks soon

In b4 she tells you to re read…

ASAP · 06-13-2021, 11:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Sara

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Originally Posted by Turkish Pickle

Sara: I don't like it when men ask me out so soon after we start talking

Also Sara: let me ask this man who just told me his occupation if he's down for drinks soon

Reread darling. I don't like it when I first talk with someone and they ask me to meet up the next day. Asking me out for a later day, at least a week or two out is fine, prefer two weeks or so due to my schedule but I'm not going to connect with someone and then walk out the door to meet them that same night. I'm not ending up on an episode of Dateline or First 48.

See I personally never understood that... there are sociopaths out there that can trick you and get you to trust them w anything weeks later after talking / comforting you.

I feel like talking too long wastes time and keeps everyone disinterested after a while.

If someone wants to do something to you and bury your body... they probably could do it in 3 weeks just as well as tomorrow. lol

fiveohwblow · 06-13-2021, 11:31 AM

Not to mention prior to fuckapps it required meeting in person, which is instantaneous. Can we rewind 30 years? Kthx.

Sara · 06-13-2021, 11:37 AM

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Not to mention prior to fuckapps it required meeting in person, which is instantaneous. Can we rewind 30 years? Kthx.

We were talking about this last night at dinner. My girlfriend deleted the apps as too many guys ghosted her for first dates. She said she'll just meet someone the old fashioned way and I just couldn't relate. I told her if a guy randomly approached me "stranger danger" kicks in and I get all weird.

Then again, it's not like I didn't date before the apps. Crazy how I'm not sure I want to go back to the old ways of dating. I dunno.

ragingpanda · 06-13-2021, 11:56 AM

I love dating apps, it has made hooking up sooooo much easier. There is no need to commit to a woman when you can get more ass than a toilet seat lol.

ragingpanda · 06-13-2021, 01:26 PM

I am always upfront with the women I meet and tell them that I am just looking for a good time and have no intentions of ever getting married or having kids. Some women appreciate my honesty and we part ways, but a LOT of them think that they can change my mind by having sex with me. Sometimes we will have fun for several months and then they bring up the good old question "Where is this going?". I do my magic and turn into Casper when they bring this up as they knew it was never going to be serious to begin with. This is most common with women over the age of 30.

Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?

Sara · 06-13-2021, 01:33 PM

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Originally Posted by ragingpanda

I am always upfront with the women I meet and tell them that I am just looking for a good time and have no intentions of ever getting married or having kids. Some women appreciate my honesty and we part ways, but a LOT of them think that they can change my mind by having sex with me. Sometimes we will have fun for several months and then they bring up the good old question "Where is this going?". I do my magic and turn into Casper when they bring this up as they knew it was never going to be serious to begin with. This is most common with women over the age of 30.

Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?

Most of my above post was sarcasm, but I hear ya. No judgment from me whatsoever. As I’ve said many times, just do what makes you happy.

Joekerr · 06-13-2021, 02:36 PM

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Ha! I'm sure you do your due diligence to ensure all these women know you're not looking for anything serious and you certainly wouldn't waste anyone's time. No one here is going to say anything to you. Hell, you'll probably get high fives.

I love it, what a fucking double standard.

Though I'm not on there just to get ass, I sure get called out on here more so than someone just seeking ass. I'm the female, so it's not okay for me to do anything other than look for marriage on those apps and only date one at a time.

It's the old lock and key saying eh?
https://www.reddit.com/r/changemyvie...en_many_locks/

I can understand, though I still think pre-marital sex is wrong regardless of gender. That puts me in, oh, I don't know, maybe 0.005% of the BP population I'm guessing.

Joekerr · 06-13-2021, 03:03 PM

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Hey, it's your views. Whether religion based, or just how you feel personally, there's not a thing wrong with waiting. I couldn't do it, but there's absolutely nothing wrong with waiting. I suppose that way, you don't know what you're missing which would mean you're satisfied with what you get.

Win win all the way around for you.

I agree, it is religion based for me, but I think that is one of the pretty good reasons why God commands us not to have premarital sex - I think then you are always comparing your current to a former, and never satisfied / happy. Or perhaps not "never", maybe too strong a word, perhaps more accurately, it is much easier for you to find a flaw in your current relationship leading to dissatisfaction.

dinonz · 06-13-2021, 03:56 PM

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Originally Posted by ragingpanda

Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?

or as the women would say, why buy the whole pig when all you get is a little sausage.

Sara · 06-13-2021, 04:03 PM

What happened to the appreciate button? Is it just me, or is it gone for the entire thread?

Joekerr · 06-13-2021, 04:07 PM

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What happened to the appreciate button? Is it just me, or is it gone for the entire thread?

Temporarily gone it appears. I'm sure it will make a reappearance.

ragingpanda · 06-13-2021, 04:09 PM

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or as the women would say, why buy the whole pig when all you get is a little sausage.

LOL, that makes no sense. Women do not determine whether or not a relationship will be established, that is up to the man.

upstatedoc · 06-13-2021, 04:17 PM

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or as the women would say, why buy the whole pig when all you get is a little sausage.

LOL, that makes no sense. Women do not determine whether or not a relationship will be established, that is up to the man.

This thread just keeps getting better

Joekerr · 06-13-2021, 04:21 PM

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LOL, that makes no sense. Women do not determine whether or not a relationship will be established, that is up to the man.

Are you Asian?

upstatedoc · 06-13-2021, 04:25 PM

dinonz · 06-13-2021, 04:34 PM

ragingpanda · 06-13-2021, 05:08 PM

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Are you Asian?

No

dinonz · 06-13-2021, 05:29 PM

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No

Stupid?

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