Dating - Good/Bad Experiences

Turkish Pickle · 11-03-2018, 04:18 PM

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Originally Posted by OnerDriver

It depends on what you want with her.
If you drive without warning she may be otherwise committed...

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Originally Posted by bimmette

Do not hit her up last minute if you actually want to see her.

ok, so text her on monday during the day and see if she's down and then make the 1h drive? sounds more reasonable than my plan tbh

bimmette · 11-03-2018, 04:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

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Originally Posted by OnerDriver

It depends on what you want with her.
If you drive without warning she may be otherwise committed...

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Originally Posted by bimmette

Do not hit her up last minute if you actually want to see her.

ok, so text her on monday during the day and see if she's down and then make the 1h drive? sounds more reasonable than my plan tbh

I don't remember all the facts here but if you actually like her, text her Sunday to say you're thinking about driving down Monday. Girls love it when you pre-plan and show initiative. But if you don't want her to catch feelings, keep it last minute.

Turkish Pickle · 11-03-2018, 04:26 PM

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Originally Posted by OnerDriver

Why just text her Monday? Are you not speaking?

Just ask her if she has plans for Monday because you plan on taking her out Monday afternoon.

nah not that, we talked this morning; i feel like doing it a last-minute thing generally has more of an effect

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Originally Posted by bimmette

I don't remember all the facts here but if you actually like her, text her Sunday to say you're thinking about driving down Monday. Girls love it when you pre-plan and show initiative. But if you don't want her to catch feelings, keep it last minute.

i dont mind if she catches feelings i'd actually like that
i just don't want to catch feels (yet at least) because it's not exactly viable for either of us to drive an hour each way (or so i think) but that also is a detail we can figure out later...

Never_Enough · 11-03-2018, 07:54 PM

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Originally Posted by OnerDriver

Just to get this straight, you "talked" for 3 hours and then she decided to kiss you on the way out of the bar, in the parking lot?

And to add insult to the injury, your next date is going shopping?

... for clothes?
... for you?

I won't even wait for Never_Enough to see this, I'll say it myself:

How freaking homo are you!?

But I'm glad you got a girlfriend now, so all is well. I'm happy you're happy

:be llyroll

Maybe doc is gay but afraid of coming out to us? Dude, we don't care if you are. We still love you.

How he did not at least try to close the deal with the make out going on is beyond me. Zero game. Zero.

Then going shopping next? Congrats on being the male version of a *** hag.

Please stop posting about her now. We tried to help you & you did not listen.

Never_Enough · 11-03-2018, 07:55 PM

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Originally Posted by upstatedoc

Relax I'm taking it slow She didn't decide I acted like a boss and kissed her

No, you are no boss w/the ladies.

Never_Enough · 11-03-2018, 07:56 PM

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Originally Posted by upstatedoc

There will be more details tomorrow. I've got this

Never_Enough · 11-03-2018, 07:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

jade texted me and asked if i was coming down, sadly had to reject her because of my shit monetary and time management skills

am i insane for thinking of just driving there monday afternoon, and hitting her up when im there? i got a "oh its actually better this way im soooooo busy" kinda answer - if texts might help i'll upload - so im kinda lost

aka she's not into you. Move on. F her

Never_Enough · 11-03-2018, 08:03 PM

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Originally Posted by OnerDriver

Lots of good analogies can be taken from this.

We're left wondering who the "mad scientist" is that's going to rip her apart to replace her pistons he tried....

So upstatedoc did Danielle help you find a skirt that fits you well today!?

Where are the freaking details!?

He is busy washing all the new panties he got for himself

Turkish Pickle · 11-03-2018, 09:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Never_Enough

aka she's not into you. Move on. F her

I have entertained that option too tbh; texted her just now, will update with response. Worst comes to worst I'll end up going out tonight after this quiz

CTinline-six · 11-03-2018, 10:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Never_Enough

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Originally Posted by upstatedoc

Relax I'm taking it slow She didn't decide I acted like a boss and kissed her

No, you are no boss w/the ladies.

Jeez you guys are rough on him haha. Banging her on the first date doesn't necessarily mean you are a boss.

He's taking it slow and sounds like she has been through a lot. He will be fine.

Never_Enough · 11-03-2018, 11:05 PM

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Originally Posted by CTinline-six

Jeez you guys are rough on him haha. Banging her on the first date doesn't necessarily mean you are a boss.

He's taking it slow and sounds like she has been through a lot. He will be fine.

I don't think you wanna compare relationship scars here.

THey've had about 50 4th grade level dates at this point now, though so...

****** · 11-03-2018, 11:19 PM

Maybe he nailed her and knows if he tells you guys this will all be over...ever think about that, hmmm?

Turkish Pickle · 11-03-2018, 11:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

I have entertained that option too tbh; texted her just now, will update with response. Worst comes to worst I'll end up going out tonight after this quiz

no response, im not holding my breath about it either lol. snap says she hasn't even opened it yet but its 2018, anyone 18-30 cannot give the argument of "i didn't see it" so it's whatever

will update in the morning

Turkish Pickle · 11-03-2018, 11:48 PM

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Originally Posted by OnerDriver

Slow down man... what's with the read receipt mania......

Play it cool and casual, otherwise call her

dw lol im not blowing her phone up with anything... sent her a text on snap (you can't disable read receipts on snap) asking how's her monday looking in the afternoon, this was about 2ish hours ago? (earlier tonight basically)

i dont have her number which is why i talk to her through snap's chat, don't intend to give her my number before i meet her again either

in the meanwhile, i got my boys to come out (it's dads weekend here so probably im meeting some fun old people AND there's hella cops in town) so we'll see what happens.

bimmette · 11-04-2018, 12:18 AM

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Originally Posted by OnerDriver

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Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

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Originally Posted by OnerDriver

Slow down man... what's with the read receipt mania......

Play it cool and casual, otherwise call her

dw lol im not blowing her phone up with anything... sent her a text on snap (you can't disable read receipts on snap) asking how's her monday looking in the afternoon, this was about 2ish hours ago? (earlier tonight basically)

i dont have her number which is why i talk to her through snap's chat, don't intend to give her my number before i meet her again either

in the meanwhile, i got my boys to come out (it's dads weekend here so probably im meeting some fun old people AND there's hella cops in town) so we'll see what happens.

But did you just ask her what she's up to without saying your intentions?

WTH is "hella cops"?

A large quantity of police officers present?

Turkish Pickle · 11-04-2018, 10:37 AM

last update on jade: nothing still, it's time to close that chapter

upstatedoc update us pls, let the patrons of this thread be happy about something

Never_Enough · 11-04-2018, 12:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Herdalum

Maybe he nailed her and knows if he tells you guys this will all be over...ever think about that, hmmm?

Come on, we all know he didn't nail anyone but Rosie & her 5 sisters....

upstatedoc · 11-04-2018, 01:07 PM

OK for those who are interested, got my outfit all picked out. We've been going back-and-forth today is far as hairstyle and facial hair. She asked me if I wanted her to have straight hair or curly hair she is naturally curly. I said either way you are gorgeous. She said she had no preference and facial hair so I'm going with shorts scruff. Sportcoat shirt with no tie slacks and dress shoes

Never_Enough · 11-04-2018, 07:04 PM

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Originally Posted by upstatedoc

OK for those who are interested, got my outfit all picked out. We've been going back-and-forth today is far as hairstyle and facial hair. She asked me if I wanted her to have straight hair or curly hair she is naturally curly. I said either way you are gorgeous. She said she had no preference and facial hair so I'm going with shorts scruff. Sportcoat shirt with no tie slacks and dress shoes

Ok so you're gay. No one cares.

Germanauto · 11-04-2018, 07:37 PM

Have not been following upstatedoc's situation closely enough...anybody care to provide a TLDR summary?

bimmette · 11-04-2018, 07:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Germanauto

Have not been following upstatedoc's situation closely enough...anybody care to provide a TLDR summary?

He took a liking to his son's friend's mom. Wasn't sure if she was single or interested. He asked her to join an outing with the kids and she declined. He was hesitant to pursue but then she asked him out to an event without the kids. And they lived happily ever after.

Never_Enough · 11-04-2018, 08:13 PM

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Originally Posted by bimmette

He took a liking to his son's friend's mom. Wasn't sure if she was single or interested. He asked her to join an outing with the kids and she declined. He was hesitant to pursue but then she asked him out to an event without the kids. And they lived happily ever after.

Not even close. She showed plenty of interest & he decided to make out w/her after 75 kid play dates then they went shopping for clothes & he asked if he should grow a beard. He became the male version of a *** hag.

The End. #upstatedocisinthecloset #disappointment #troll #micropenis #smh

11-03-2018, 11:19 PM	#1178
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Germanauto Major General 9844 Rep 6,144 Posts Drives: Alfa Romeo Giulia, Rosso Join Date: Jul 2016 Location: LA iTrader: (0)	Have not been following upstatedoc's situation closely enough...anybody care to provide a TLDR summary?
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