Should I refund this guy his money?

SES_D · 03-08-2010, 10:52 PM

let him know if he wants return he needs to pay the shipping back to you & on top of that you have to inspect every inch of the product to ensure it was in the same condition when you sold it and if not, no refund will be issued.

if he's smart, he'll deal with it.

ChineseGuy · 03-08-2010, 10:54 PM

What kind of world is he living in? There's no second chance or "sorry can I try it again" in life. When you screw up something or be careless about something, you really have to suffer the consequences. This is life. Sooner or later that guy needs to grow up and live in the real world.

I can only imagine when he tries to buy a house and finds it uncomfortable later on and tries to refund that...

persian54 · 03-08-2010, 11:05 PM

we agreed he'll ship it back, I inspect, then give him $55

the thing is... he admitted that he bought on impulse.. without actually even having his 135i yet! lol

hey anyone wanna ban wh? :P lol
jking. it was fun

persian54 · 03-08-2010, 11:07 PM

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Originally Posted by ChineseGuy

What kind of world is he living in? There's no second chance or "sorry can I try it again" in life. When you screw up something or be careless about something, you really have to suffer the consequences. This is life. Sooner or later that guy needs to grow up and live in the real world.

I can only imagine when he tries to buy a house and finds it uncomfortable later on and tries to refund that...

O god... I wonder if he'll want to return his 135i when he realizes it gets bad mpg compared to a non-high performance car..

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Originally Posted by SES_D

let him know if he wants return he needs to pay the shipping back to you & on top of that you have to inspect every inch of the product to ensure it was in the same condition when you sold it and if not, no refund will be issued.

if he's smart, he'll deal with it.

Yeah, if it's not 1000000% new, I'm not giving him a full refund. That was the agreement.

chungdae · 03-09-2010, 12:29 AM

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Originally Posted by whathappened

I could care less whether you refund the buyer or not. The reason I wouldn't do a deal with you were the chance to arise is HOW you handled everything in-between. Regardless of the end result, the process was full-out Drama with a capital "D", and you acted to escalate the problem and pump up the drama repeatedly.

Again, it's just my personal opinion of who I will send my own money to. I've stated what I would have done in the same situation and gave you my opinion. You came here and posted to get other people's opinions. Now you are escalating and pumping up the drama yet again when someone actually gives you the opinions you solicited.

Wow you are annoying. Stay quiet.

balance · 03-09-2010, 02:46 AM

lol i seriously think that if the guy asked you for a refund more politely you would have done it
any his excuse was shitty
i don't get what's up with his attitude either
i would just punch him in the face if hes local and call it a day

FORCED AIR · 03-09-2010, 03:34 AM

OP I would do business with you. You are completely justified. I am impressed you even considered still given that punk his refund after his messages. You are not a vendor, so you owe no "refunds regardless of reason." Besides that, there was absolutely nothing wrong with the product.

WhatamItalking about is a troll, looks like nearly half his posts are in this thread, and really has no valid or even well thought through points to make.

I like the pedals, first time seeing them. Clearly they have to be screwed in...and not into stock holes....that is obvious. Let me know if you order another batch. I will pick some up.

persian54 · 03-09-2010, 06:47 AM

Thanks everyone

Surprisingly... I just got an email from him and he said he is actually going to keep them lollll
His emails are much more respectful, which I appreciate.

leocdmg · 03-09-2010, 08:12 AM

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Originally Posted by persian54

Thanks everyone

Surprisingly... I just got an email from him and he said he is actually going to keep them lollll
His emails are much more respectful, which I appreciate.

He probably messed them up already lol

Comet · 03-09-2010, 08:53 AM

or he saw this thread

ragingclue · 03-09-2010, 09:42 AM

Who the hell let Nixon out of the Politics/Religion subforum???

BOOST3D · 03-09-2010, 10:06 AM

fuck him dont give him shit back, thats if he decides he wants a refund again

persian54 · 03-09-2010, 01:07 PM

lol

well either way, whatever

at least he's not being annoying by demanding stuff etc

Kroy · 03-09-2010, 01:07 PM

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Originally Posted by ragingclue

Who the hell let Nixon out of the Politics/Religion subforum???

ghosthi32 · 03-09-2010, 01:48 PM

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Originally Posted by ragingclue

Who the hell let Nixon out of the Politics/Religion subforum???

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03-08-2010, 10:52 PM	#133
SES_D pewpew 490 Rep 21,164 Posts Drives: F10 535i Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: San Francisco iTrader: (26)	let him know if he wants return he needs to pay the shipping back to you & on top of that you have to inspect every inch of the product to ensure it was in the same condition when you sold it and if not, no refund will be issued. if he's smart, he'll deal with it. __________________ LTMW
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ChineseGuy QuickShifter 144 Rep 1,499 Posts Drives: Black E90 Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: North Pole iTrader: (2)	What kind of world is he living in? There's no second chance or "sorry can I try it again" in life. When you screw up something or be careless about something, you really have to suffer the consequences. This is life. Sooner or later that guy needs to grow up and live in the real world. I can only imagine when he tries to buy a house and finds it uncomfortable later on and tries to refund that...
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03-08-2010, 11:05 PM	#135
persian54 Lieutenant General 970 Rep 15,818 Posts Drives: M760/G83M4 Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: The Valley, SoCal iTrader: (298)	we agreed he'll ship it back, I inspect, then give him $55 the thing is... he admitted that he bought on impulse.. without actually even having his 135i yet! lol hey anyone wanna ban wh? :P lol jking. it was fun __________________ From E93 335i to E89 Z4 to E93 M3/E89 Z4 to E350/SL550
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03-09-2010, 02:46 AM	#138
balance Colonel 125 Rep 2,090 Posts Drives: F32 435i Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: OC iTrader: (6) Garage List 2014 BMW [0.00]	lol i seriously think that if the guy asked you for a refund more politely you would have done it any his excuse was shitty i don't get what's up with his attitude either i would just punch him in the face if hes local and call it a day __________________
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03-09-2010, 03:34 AM	#139
FORCED AIR Got Boost? 8 Rep 234 Posts Drives: 2010 135i, Msport Join Date: May 2009 Location: The Desert iTrader: (1)	OP I would do business with you. You are completely justified. I am impressed you even considered still given that punk his refund after his messages. You are not a vendor, so you owe no "refunds regardless of reason." Besides that, there was absolutely nothing wrong with the product. WhatamItalking about is a troll, looks like nearly half his posts are in this thread, and really has no valid or even well thought through points to make. I like the pedals, first time seeing them. Clearly they have to be screwed in...and not into stock holes....that is obvious. Let me know if you order another batch. I will pick some up. __________________ - - My Car Domain - - 2010 BMW 135i AT, AW, ///M Sport JB4\|BMS DCI\|MS 3" cattless DPs\|Golf Tee\|33% Tint\|///M Pedals
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03-09-2010, 06:47 AM	#140
persian54 Lieutenant General 970 Rep 15,818 Posts Drives: M760/G83M4 Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: The Valley, SoCal iTrader: (298)	Thanks everyone Surprisingly... I just got an email from him and he said he is actually going to keep them lollll His emails are much more respectful, which I appreciate. __________________ From E93 335i to E89 Z4 to E93 M3/E89 Z4 to E350/SL550
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03-09-2010, 08:53 AM	#142
Comet Troll Harder 403 Rep 596 Posts Drives: 997 GT3, 997 4 GTS, X6M Join Date: May 2007 Location: Montreal, Beirut iTrader: (0) Garage List 2011 Porsche GT3 [8.00] 2012 Porsche 4 GTS [5.34]	or he saw this thread __________________
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03-09-2010, 09:42 AM	#143
ragingclue One cam is enough 136 Rep 6,801 Posts Drives: VF Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: mulletville iTrader: (1)	Who the hell let Nixon out of the Politics/Religion subforum???
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03-09-2010, 10:06 AM	#144
BOOST3D Captain 31 Rep 838 Posts Drives: 328i 2000,X5 2003,2008 335i Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: whittier SOCAL iTrader: (10)	fuck him dont give him shit back, thats if he decides he wants a refund again
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03-09-2010, 01:07 PM	#145
persian54 Lieutenant General 970 Rep 15,818 Posts Drives: M760/G83M4 Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: The Valley, SoCal iTrader: (298)	lol well either way, whatever at least he's not being annoying by demanding stuff etc __________________ From E93 335i to E89 Z4 to E93 M3/E89 Z4 to E350/SL550
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