time to dump?

vinlikesred · 04-27-2008, 07:13 PM

had a brunch with her at tgif and paid about $40 bucks as i always did.

for the first time, i was like, why do i have to be the one to pay the bill all the time...

time to dump her?

Zeeman · 04-27-2008, 07:19 PM

she should dump you for taking her to tgif.

Taittinger · 04-27-2008, 07:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Zeeman

she should dump you for taking her to tgif.

Indeed

vinlikesred · 04-27-2008, 07:24 PM

nah... the best she could afford without me is mcdonald's

MeEmZ · 04-27-2008, 07:24 PM

don't be cheap. I believe she is worth more than a lousy $40.

btw, a true gentleman will never let his date pay.

TheLegacy · 04-27-2008, 07:29 PM

dude fuck that

after you're together long enough, it should be mutual.

At first yeah but I mean if its been sometime

darkcloud · 04-27-2008, 07:31 PM

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Originally Posted by MeEmZ

btw, a true gentleman will never let his date pay.

A true gentleman would agree that it gets old and expensive to constantly have to pay for a woman that your not married to.

If I could tally what my now fiance and I have separately spent on dinners for each other it would looks something like this...

Me $5,675.74 > Her 769.54

These aren't exact but they gotta be really close. I could prolly count on my hands and feet how many times shes picked up a meal. I could go beyond that a count in bar tabs, grocery store, sporting events etc. I've prolly dropped somewhere in the $15k range just putting food and liquids in this chicks stomach. She better be worth it as I'm marrying her in August

MeEmZ · 04-27-2008, 07:37 PM

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Originally Posted by darkcloud

A true gentleman would agree that it gets old and expensive to constantly have to pay for a woman that your not married to.

If I could tally what my now fiance and I have separately spent on dinners for each other it would looks something like this...

Me $5,675.74 > Her 769.54

These aren't exact but they gotta be really close. I could prolly count on my hands and feet how many times shes picked up a meal. I could go beyond that a count in bar tabs, grocery store, sporting events etc. I've prolly dropped somewhere in the $15k range just putting food and liquids in this chicks stomach. She better be worth it as I'm marrying her in August

congrats mate

darkcloud · 04-27-2008, 07:37 PM

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Originally Posted by MeEmZ

congrats mate

On dropping a shit load of money on her or marrying her

vinlikesred · 04-27-2008, 07:39 PM

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Originally Posted by darkcloud

On dropping a shit load of money on her or marrying her

at least you are getting married wit her. i have no intention on marrying her. it's kinda like buying versus leasing... you don't wanna spend too much $$$ on what's going to be a CPO...

Taittinger · 04-27-2008, 07:53 PM

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Originally Posted by vinlikesred

nah... the best she could afford without me is mcdonald's

If so, how would she have paid for it?

DM1 · 04-27-2008, 07:56 PM

That's the worst reason to think of dumping someone,... I believe that if you're thinking that it's because you don't really care about her anymore, and that's fine, but I mean, after all, it's just dinner or lunch every now and then,... what do you plan to do if you get married,... get a divorce after you realize that you have to pay for utilities, insurance, cable, medical, phone, mobile phones, etc, etc, etc.?? Just my opinion,... a man should always pay, but let her pay if she really wants to every now and then.

K330i · 04-27-2008, 08:05 PM

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Originally Posted by cars4lyfe

vinlikesred, you're basically paying for sex. everytime you sleep w/ her just remember it took a $20 meal to hit that.

if you think about it, that's a pretty cheap price for sex considering what eliot spitzer paid (about $4000/hour)

.......what is he really thinking?

,

SteelTorque · 04-27-2008, 08:11 PM

Everything should be 50/50.

magmd · 04-27-2008, 08:18 PM

I can't make a true evaluation of the situation without them

vinlikesred · 04-27-2008, 08:27 PM

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Originally Posted by cars4lyfe

A real man pays for everything and a real woman stays home cleaning and cooking. if this statement were true, you'd never be in the situation you are in now if she would just stay in the kitchen and make you a nice home-cooked meal.

couldn't have said better myself... the first thing she said this morning, after getting up past noon, was, where we gonna have (b)lunch today?

little did she know... my immediate reaction inside my head was... not again... didn't we just do a grocery shopping yesterday?

MTV · 04-27-2008, 08:32 PM

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Originally Posted by cars4lyfe

A real man pays for everything and a real woman stays home cleaning and cooking. if this statement were true, you'd never be in the situation you are in now if she would just stay in the kitchen and make you a nice home-cooked meal.

fucking hilarious

ironjw · 04-27-2008, 08:45 PM

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Originally Posted by K330i

.......what is he really thinking?

,

lol

but yah move on!!

wuufer001 · 04-27-2008, 09:28 PM

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Originally Posted by magmd

I can't make a true evaluation of the situation without them

+1, we can't say much without pics

karliejai · 04-27-2008, 10:59 PM

who gets brunch at tgif?!

MadDog · 04-27-2008, 11:08 PM

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Originally Posted by vinlikesred

couldn't have said better myself... the first thing she said this morning, after getting up past noon, was, where we gonna have (b)lunch today?

little did she know... my immediate reaction inside my head was... not again... didn't we just do a grocery shopping yesterday?

Then tell her you can't afford to keep eating out all the time. If she leaves for good, no big loss. If she cooks you a meal, she's a keeper.

Revlis · 04-27-2008, 11:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Zeeman

she should dump you for taking her to tgif.

That's what I was thinking...

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