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      05-18-2006, 07:16 AM   #1
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My girlfriend just had emergency brain surgery and probably won't make it passed this week. I wrote this last night hoping to cope with the pain some how.

UPDATE: Sara will temporarily recover and may live up to six more months.


"What I want you to know..."

I love you more than I've ever loved before
I love you today more than I did yesterday
I love you and all that your beautiful heart offers
I love your singing, I love your accent, I love you

When you are out of the hospital I want to share our lives
I want to share every precious moment in life together
I want my arms around you whispering the warmest of whisperings
I want to hug you so lovingly only the brightest feelings remain

Every corner and crevice of my soul yearns to love and comfort you
Within me is an eternal flame of love for you that I cherish
A flame of delight, wonder, awe, beauty, passion, tranquility
I would swim all the oceans to softly kiss and hold your hand

You are my Beautiful
You will be my Beautiful
I am here for you today
I am here for you tomorrow

I love so much you, Sara
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      05-18-2006, 08:00 AM   #2
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Wow, Sorry to hear about your gf. Hope she gets thru her procedure.
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      05-18-2006, 08:08 AM   #3
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I feel the pain.

Though it's a different story, but my mom had 3 brain attacks whatever 5 and a half years ago. Coming like lightning struck...she was 54 back then. A petite sporty woman. 3 weeks in a coma...the doctors told us she 'd die in about 2 weeks. We already arranged her funeral.

BUT SHE SURVIVED. OK she is halfsided 'paralyzed' and she cannot talk that much/very tired and she sits in a wheelchair. But she lives. The greatest woman in my life! (tears in my eyes right now)

IM SO SORRY MAN. TAKE CARE. We all hope she will survive!!!
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      05-18-2006, 08:13 AM   #4
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Remember, there is always hope!

So sorry to hear, my best wishes.
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      05-18-2006, 08:17 AM   #5
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Sorry to hear about your g/f, hope things turn out well.
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      05-18-2006, 08:40 AM   #6
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I pray that God would provide wisdom for those caring for your girlfriend, healing for her, and comfort for you in this time of tragedy.
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      05-18-2006, 08:45 AM   #7
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Sorry to hear about this, hoping the best for her...

Josh
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Sorry to hear the news, hopes and prayers for the best...

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that is horrible, but you can't give up hope just like that!

keep us posted and i hope everything turns around and she gets better.
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sorry to hear, our thoughts and prayers are with your gf
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Good luck and stay strong!
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Thank you all for the support. It really helps. I'll be stong and keep hope, but that's just not in the cards for today. My emotions are too much for logic like that right now.

She has been upgraded to stable condition, but she may be permanently paralyzed if she does pull through. The doctors said this happened because her ex-husband beat her head into a sidewalk two years ago.

Please keep up the kind words, prayers and support.

Robin Hood: Thanks for sharing the story about your Mom. It's giving me some hope.
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sorry man, hope she gets better soon. stay positive. she'll do fine.
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Hey man that sucks. I hope you can get through this with the most minimal amount of pain. Good luck.
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May God grant her a full recovery, and may he grant you the strength to get through this very trying time.
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      05-18-2006, 11:31 AM   #16
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That's horrendous.

I may not know you, or your girlfriend, but you are both in my thoughts.

Good luck...and if there is anything we can do on the board to help bolster your spirits, all you need to do is ask.
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I hope she gets better.

Stay strong.
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Thank you for pouring your heart and soul out to us Bimmer, we pray for her and for you.

Life is so precious and wonderful.
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try and keep in mind that everything happens for a reason even though it does not feel like it right now. hope she gets better soon bro Rich
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Tragic event, bimmer - you have my condolences. Stay strong for your own good and also for her.
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My prayers go to you and your gf.
Beautiful poem.
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And I thought I was having a bad day, here is wishing you and Sara the best....
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