[Alexander]

So an introduction of myself. I am a Marine Combat veteran (Scout Sniper), with more kills than you have fingers and toes.... Lol, that is an introduction to my complete emotional numbness...

So I've been dating this girl for a month now, but talking to her for a while. She is very cute, shy and smart. We've talked every night for hours, but rarely on the phone just on AIM. We've had about 5 official dates, which all went smoothly.

So tonight she shows up on my door step with her friend (girl) who I am not a fan of (huge bitch). I was in bed btw when she was pounding at my door. So I let her in and they come in my living room and sit next to each other on the couch. I try sitting next to Linda (Thats her name) and she is just numb, doesnt look at me or anything... Ok so to sum that shit up she walks out 30 minutes later with no excuse. I go outside in the cold with bare feet and a tee shirt asking why are you leaving. She doesnt say anything. About 10 minutes later I call her and ask what the hell did I do... Anyways she claims that I ignored her and was mean... Lol wtf bitch I tried sitting next to you and I tried talking to you. So we get into conversation and I get pissed. Ok so last thursday she left my house at 1am to go pick up a drunk girl friend. Guess what after interrogating her it turns out that she was spending time with another guy, an ex boyfriend... After she tells me that they are over... So she then confesses that she is dating both of us.. She says whats the big deal with that? That its ok to have two boyfriends. OMG... This is a shy nice cute smart college girl... I never had any any warning signs and she has been lying to me since day one. She says that we aren't mutually exclusive and that she can have as many boyfriends as she wants... OMG. I tell her well what if I was dating another girl right now? She tells me that she wouldn't care, as long as I didn't tell her about it... Are you serious?

I am a very attractive guy, lol. I can talk to anyone. I've dated a lot of girls, and never never had I ever had an experience like this. I might expect it from a blonde skank that I picked up in a bar, but this???

I'm so confused right now, as I said I am emotionally numb, but I do have honor and pride. Right now I am furious, because I just got played by an "innocent" 22 year old girl...

Wow...

[JayKay335i]

Yeah, you just got played.

On the bright side, its not like you had a real relationship.

Rub one out and move on.

[MCMLXXXIX]

yea, i wouldnt get too caught up on it. you dont want to date a girl like that, shes crazy

you could have a serious talk with her, but is it worth it? a month is a very short time


oh, and thanks for your service

[335R1]

Fido Marine. Fuck It Drive On. Grunts don't have girl friends. We have bitches.

[BMW F22]

First of all, it's only been about a month so you shouldn't be so down about it. I know it's harder said than done but still. Secondly, dating is different from a relationship. When you're dating you are allowed to date more than one person. It's kind of like a company interviewing candidates for a job. When 2 people have been dating for a while and they feel a connection and want to be exclusive, they enter into a relationship. That's when it is wrong to be involved with others.

You said you're a really good looking guy (sounded kinda cocky imo but I'll digress), wtf are you putting that bitch on a pedestal? Go out, date other women and just keep that girl on the back burner. If you have dated a lot of girls like you said then you should know how to handle this situation. When I read the title of this thread I was expecting like someone got cheated on after being a relationship for years or somethings along that line. Come on man, wake up and smell the coffee!!!

BTW, girls are shy/act shy/look innocent/etc. usually are the most freaky of all. It's like that librarian you think is a little nerdy and innocent until she puts on a little makeup, let her hair hang down and she turns into a little beast in bed. It's kinda ironic how you're in the marines but just got your ass whooped by a little civilian girl.

[Bartman619]

i bet you can snipe her and her boyfriend from a thousand yards....just kidding. my advice, go to Las Vegas and blow off some steam.

[Vanity]

Originally Posted by Aonarch

So an introduction of myself. I am a Marine Combat veteran (Scout Sniper), with more kills than you have fingers and toes.... Lol, that is an introduction to my complete emotional numbness...

So I've been dating this girl for a month now, but talking to her for a while. She is very cute, shy and smart. We've talked every night for hours, but rarely on the phone just on AIM. We've had about 5 official dates, which all went smoothly.

So tonight she shows up on my door step with her friend (girl) who I am not a fan of (huge bitch). I was in bed btw when she was pounding at my door. So I let her in and they come in my living room and sit next to each other on the couch. I try sitting next to Linda (Thats her name) and she is just numb, doesnt look at me or anything... Ok so to sum that shit up she walks out 30 minutes later with no excuse. I go outside in the cold with bare feet and a tee shirt asking why are you leaving. She doesnt say anything. About 10 minutes later I call her and ask what the hell did I do... Anyways she claims that I ignored her and was mean... Lol wtf bitch I tried sitting next to you and I tried talking to you. So we get into conversation and I get pissed. Ok so last thursday she left my house at 1am to go pick up a drunk girl friend. Guess what after interrogating her it turns out that she was spending time with another guy, an ex boyfriend... After she tells me that they are over... So she then confesses that she is dating both of us.. She says whats the big deal with that? That its ok to have two boyfriends. OMG... This is a shy nice cute smart college girl... I never had any any warning signs and she has been lying to me since day one. She says that we aren't mutually exclusive and that she can have as many boyfriends as she wants... OMG. I tell her well what if I was dating another girl right now? She tells me that she wouldn't care, as long as I didn't tell her about it... Are you serious?

I am a very attractive guy, lol. I can talk to anyone. I've dated a lot of girls, and never never had I ever had an experience like this. I might expect it from a blonde skank that I picked up in a bar, but this???

I'm so confused right now, as I said I am emotionally numb, but I do have honor and pride. Right now I am furious, because I just got played by an "innocent" 22 year old girl...

Wow...

I was in a situation with this innocent girl and things were going good at first. Tried to move things into a relationship and she put us in relationship-purgatory for about 2-3 months, just kept delaying it. Then decides one day we're gonna go for this after all and she plans the date and everything else you can imagine. Next thing you know she turns her back on me in one second and erases me from her life. I still don't know what the hell went wrong.

Can anyone explain to me why innocent girls are crazy?

[YellowFinger]

Originally Posted by Bartman619

i bet you can snipe her and her boyfriend from a thousand yards....just kidding. my advice, go to Las Vegas and blow off some steam.

LOL

[BMW_03]

It's clear you're more confused about how can this "shy girl" could come and mess with your pride than mess with your heart, separate the two things, don't let your emotions get the best of you and be cool about it, there's always a lesson to be learned, remember: "don't ever let your guard down"...

[JayKay335i]

Originally Posted by Vanity

I was in a situation with this innocent girl and things were going good at first. Tried to move things into a relationship and she put us in relationship-purgatory for about 2-3 months, just kept delaying it. Then decides one day we're gonna go for this after all and she plans the date and everything else you can imagine. Next thing you know she turns her back on me in one second and erases me from her life. I still don't know what the hell went wrong.

Can anyone explain to me why innocent girls are crazy?

Innocent girls aren't crazy. They just need somebody to show them the way.

[bunnn]

Originally Posted by Vanity

Next thing you know she turns her back on me in one second and erases me from her life. I still don't know what the hell went wrong.

Can anyone explain to me why innocent girls are crazy?

I know someone like that ..she'd get close with someone then go completely cold, eventually erasing people out of her life.. not that she genuinely wants to hurt people it's the past that she had ...

then you have the type of girl OP deals with...it's hard to really tell if someone is "innocent" until you get to know them really well..1 month is definitely not long enough...i have a good friend that gets bent over backwards on quarterly basis...I tell him every time, but it justs gets overlooked when you are so into that person

sucks to have to deal with those people, but you say you're good looking and can talk to anyone..f it and move on

[Vanity]

Originally Posted by JayKay335i

Innocent girls aren't crazy. They just need somebody to show them the way.

Meaning...

[JayKay335i]

Originally Posted by Vanity

Meaning...

Bang the shit out of her. Make her crawl back for more. Its a combination of both making her feel great about her self while reaping all the benefits of a shy girl who now has the confidence to get wild. You need to culture and grow their inner freak. Its an art.

[lambtron]

Originally Posted by Bartman619

i bet you can snipe her and her boyfriend from a thousand yards....just kidding. my advice, go to Las Vegas and blow off some steam.

Should be cake for our Marine scout snipers I can only imagine the extent of their training considering at a very minimum, all Marines must be able to hit a target from 500yds using iron sights. 8541/0317 is the shit. I would say "suck it up Marine," but you're probably just as sick of hearing that as I am, haha. WAPCE (Women Are Pure [and] Concetrated Evil) and what 335R1 said...fido.


S/F

[Dan in PA]

Women fucking suck dude...That is all I can say

[ibeclueless]

wow that is messed up, i say forget about her and move on

[Spool]

you can add a couple more kills to your list now...j/k


as mentioned before, drink beer, masturbate violently...and move on

[ragingclue]

Is she a uniform chaser? Meaning is her ex also in the service or an LEO?

Funny how callous one has to be to go through some of that shit out there, and yet some dumb bitch can make you feel like an Air Winger who was just told he's not getting his chow break.... Just kidding (kinda)....

I don't agree with what she did; I had virtually the same thing happen to me when I was in and stationed in Cali. Her "ex" was also a Marine, and she didn't really even give me the choice of letting her date both of us (which still would not have been ok by any stretch of the imagination); she just called me one day and said she couldn't see me because she was back with her ex. I didn't even know they were still talking. That dude used to beat her too. Girls like that are just trouble. I think when in the military (at least in the Marine Corps), you've got a lot of bitches that care much more about your uniform than they care about you.

Anyway, best of luck. I'd just suggest you hang with whatever friends you've got this weekend and blow off as much steam as possible. Any time any of my friends were going through something like this back in SD, there was one word that fixed everything: Vegas. Probably not too easy for you though. That's a long drive.

[Alexander]

Sorry about the title.... I didn't mean I was heart broken. I'm just pissed that from day one she has been lying to me about the other guys after I've told her that its ok to tell me and that I wouldn't get mad. I told her I'm not clingy, but she called me clinging after I found out that she was spending the night with another guy. She still doesn't feel bad about it. Then on one date it was like 1 am and everything was going great, she walks out with the lame excuse of going to pick up a drunk girlfriend. She was actually going to another guys... I asked her, look I dont give a f%#k, but how could anyone do this and think thats ok.

I'm not caught up by it, but rather stunned that girls like that exist were they could be the ones who are so cold, she is a "good" girl btw.

So I am doing what has been posted already... Moving on, I'm hung over so no drinking, but maybe some violent masturbating not sure yet.

[Alexander]

Originally Posted by ragingclue

Is she a uniform chaser? Meaning is her ex also in the service or an LEO?

Funny how callous one has to be to go through some of that shit out there, and yet some dumb bitch can make you feel like an Air Winger who was just told he's not getting his chow break.... Just kidding (kinda)....

I don't agree with what she did; I had virtually the same thing happen to me when I was in and stationed in Cali. Her "ex" was also a Marine, and she didn't really even give me the choice of letting her date both of us (which still would not have been ok by any stretch of the imagination); she just called me one day and said she couldn't see me because she was back with her ex. I didn't even know they were still talking. That dude used to beat her too. Girls like that are just trouble. I think when in the military (at least in the Marine Corps), you've got a lot of bitches that care much more about your uniform than they care about you.

Anyway, best of luck. I'd just suggest you hang with whatever friends you've got this weekend and blow off as much steam as possible. Any time any of my friends were going through something like this back in SD, there was one word that fixed everything: Vegas. Probably not too easy for you though. That's a long drive.

Yes her ex is in the Army.... That's right I got played by a chick and her Army POG ex boyfriend... So I'm guessing that she is a uniform chaser, but she never commented on me being a Marine.

[Alexander]

Originally Posted by Vanity

I was in a situation with this innocent girl and things were going good at first. Tried to move things into a relationship and she put us in relationship-purgatory for about 2-3 months, just kept delaying it. Then decides one day we're gonna go for this after all and she plans the date and everything else you can imagine. Next thing you know she turns her back on me in one second and erases me from her life. I still don't know what the hell went wrong.

Can anyone explain to me why innocent girls are crazy?

I assume that would happen to me if I was to continue dating her. My assumption is that she was seeing other people and then one day Mr. football jock asked her to be exclusive and she erased you and every other guy.

As to that whole outtake on dating... I'm not sure it's growing up in the South, but I've never considered it normal to date multiple people at once. I understand that you can go on a date then another date with another person, but I just don't understand why anybody would be that big in a rush. Also it shouldn't take 10 dates to feel a connection, in my mind it should be apparent rather quickly.

[J-9]

Meh, don't mean to make light of it, but respectfully, it was only a month. Wait till some broad wastes a couple years or more. THEN you've got issues.

Otherwise, the slut played you. Keep your pride, you still got it with everything you put up with in the Marines. Move on to another and keep going until you find one that actually means something after awhile, but keep your guard up until that's proven.

Be safe, but if you can't: make it more hazardous for the other guy.

Edit: It's okay to date multiple others, but be honest about it without bragging if the topic comes up with a chick.