We say girls are always bitching between each other...

abisson · 08-07-2010, 04:13 PM

but I realized that men are the same.

I was walking with friends today, and Jesus we talk as much behind someone's back than girls do.

Is it just my group of friends or it's common in your group of friends too?

I have 3-4 REAL friends that I do not talk behind their back and if I have something to say, I will say it to them but other than that...

Discuss.

.:bHd:. · 08-07-2010, 04:25 PM

talk about skanks but not each other

EmmettBrown · 08-07-2010, 05:00 PM

men do it just as much, its true. its just that girls are worse at it. does that make sense?

Gotadime · 08-07-2010, 05:37 PM

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Originally Posted by EmmettBrown

men do it just as much, its true. its just that girls are worse at it. does that make sense?

I think we're a little more logical about it? Idk. This definitely occurs in my friend group though. One difference I've noticed is that we don't exactly take it seriously - half of what we say is followed by a nice laugh.

jibaholic101 · 08-07-2010, 06:12 PM

everyone likes to gossip, it's just human nature. although i agree with above poster that men are generally more logical and apply reason as opposed to feelings

BMW F22 · 08-07-2010, 09:26 PM

It is true that everyone gossips. As for how much it all depends on the person. Sometimes when I get together with friends we would talk about each other as well as other friends we know. We don't make fun of others or talk shit about them. We only talk about things that are true or things that we think are wrong. When I do talk about things that are wrong they're usually things that I've already told that person to their face.

aut0sh0cker · 08-07-2010, 09:29 PM

1. We talk shit about each other more than anything else, but its all in good fun rather than actually damaging.

2. We complain A LOT less. Girls, please tone down the bitching. It doesn't make you look educated or classy when you talk down everything in sight.

3. Men can talk shit about each other and still be friends.

BTM · 08-07-2010, 10:03 PM

I agree, with girls the intent is much more malicious than it is with guys. We can call our best friend an ugly fat piece of shit without anyone really giving a shit because the intent is different - when a girl says it it is usually about a chick who is not ugly, fat, or a piece of shit and they are just jealous or not getting enough attention

Also chicks never shut the fuck up and considering there really isn't that much to talk about a lot of that has to be filled in with gossip and shit talking

c0nstant · 08-07-2010, 10:08 PM

guys talk shit about anything and everything and it literally doesn't mean anything 99% of the time. girls talk shit and it's like they're casting spells or practicing black magic

BMW F22 · 08-07-2010, 10:15 PM

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Originally Posted by jh valley

guys talk shit about anything and everything and it literally doesn't mean anything 99% of the time. girls talk shit and it's like they're casting spells or practicing black magic

lol I wanna use this as my sig.

08-08-2010, 12:02 AM

guys will talk shit behind their backs but most of the time, the other guy doesn't care or isn't listening and it ends there. With girls, they take it to the next level and far beyond.

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BMW F22 Major General 3664 Rep 9,783 Posts Drives: ///M235i Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Bay Area iTrader: (8)	It is true that everyone gossips. As for how much it all depends on the person. Sometimes when I get together with friends we would talk about each other as well as other friends we know. We don't make fun of others or talk shit about them. We only talk about things that are true or things that we think are wrong. When I do talk about things that are wrong they're usually things that I've already told that person to their face.
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BTM Banned 501 Rep 10,309 Posts Drives: A///MERICAN!!! Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: A///MERICA!!! iTrader: (11) Garage List 2007 BMW Z4 M Coupe [7.20]	I agree, with girls the intent is much more malicious than it is with guys. We can call our best friend an ugly fat piece of shit without anyone really giving a shit because the intent is different - when a girl says it it is usually about a chick who is not ugly, fat, or a piece of shit and they are just jealous or not getting enough attention Also chicks never shut the fuck up and considering there really isn't that much to talk about a lot of that has to be filled in with gossip and shit talking
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