My first personal question..

Nikki · 12-22-2005, 12:44 AM

What do you do when you like someone and they don't like you back? Not how to get them to like you, but how to make yourself feel better about rejection?

Sometimes I write poetry, or I take my camera somewhere and take some photos, or I just get on the highway and drive, listen to some trance music, and sometimes I try and think of my favorite things...that song makes me feel a little better..

kobechrome · 12-22-2005, 12:45 AM

Forget about it and move on.

shimshimhada · 12-22-2005, 12:49 AM

I wouldn't know

actually, I cry myself to sleep

TYW · 12-22-2005, 12:59 AM

Nikki...

Don't cry! Get in that beautiful car of yours and drive!!!

Hope this isn't happening to you...

Squawks · 12-22-2005, 01:41 AM

Why would you ask this when you already have a b/f? Are you playin' on your man?

I moved on. But then again that past "rejection" wasn't really a rejection. I just found out that she was a Christian zealot. What a turn-off.

ksfrogman · 12-22-2005, 01:49 AM

Distract yourself with your other obsessions.

Nikki · 12-22-2005, 01:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Squawks

Why would you ask this when you already have a b/f? Are you playin' on your man?

I moved on. But then again that past "rejection" wasn't really a rejection. I just found out that she was a Christian zealot. What a turn-off.

I don't know...I guess I'm just bored and miss being excited about being in love. My past three relationships have turned out this way. I'm not trying to find anyone else, but I slowly found myself having feelings for someone else, and when I told him, he said he didn't feel the same way. You can't control your feelings, but you can control your actions. Maybe I shouldn't have even said anything, but I'm not one that can easily hide what I am feeling.

BMW F22 · 12-22-2005, 02:00 AM

I dunno. After i got my first rejection i also got my E90 so it all worked out...

nabutes · 12-22-2005, 02:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Nikki

You can't control your feelings, but you can control your actions. Maybe I shouldn't have even said anything, but I'm not one that can easily hide what I am feeling.

There's only one way to find out...

You probably would have driven yourself crazy playing the 'what-if' game...

Enroutte · 12-22-2005, 02:11 AM

i go shopping. seriously.. nothing feels better than a brand new purse or shoppping spree at your favorite store

Ed_330i · 12-22-2005, 02:11 AM

Oh Christ, there are so many people in the world.

Just walk away before you say something stupid and make things so much worse.

i know from experience. Just walk away before trouble comes round.

Nikki · 12-22-2005, 02:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Enroutte

i go shopping. seriously.. nothing feels better than a brand new purse or shoppping spree at your favorite store

yeah but that's reallly dangerous..lol.

i got my hair dyed black this weekend. he asked me why and I said "it's black like my heart." that felt good.

Enroutte · 12-22-2005, 02:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Nikki

yeah but that's reallly dangerous..lol.

i got my hair dyed black this weekend. he asked me why and I said "it's black like my heart." that felt good.

DUDE we can totally be friends! my friend made a project on a black poster and our teacher was like "yaa.. blackk nice" and i was like "yaaa its black like her heart." hwahah ;]

my hair is naturally black

and yeah youre right.. shopping sprees are dangerous. my mom always goes "kathryn.. .WHAT DID YOU CHARGEEEE on my card?"

shimshimhada · 12-22-2005, 02:15 AM

You guys are so emo...

Nikki · 12-22-2005, 02:17 AM

haha my hair is naturally black too but i've been dying it brown for years, i don't think anyone knows it's actually so dark.

Enroutte · 12-22-2005, 02:19 AM

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haha my hair is naturally black too but i've been dying it brown for years, i don't think anyone knows it's actually so dark.

haha mee too! my hair has always been dyed a brown with liek carmel in it or something.. .but im asian so most ppl know its fake.

and im nottt emo. im so UN -EMO. im like the happiest and most peppy person you will everrr meet.

Enroutte · 12-22-2005, 02:19 AM

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Originally Posted by shimshimhada

You guys are so emo...

your car is black. YOURE EMO.

Nikki · 12-22-2005, 02:20 AM

i'm usually happy. in fact i haven't been this sad in several years.

shimshimhada · 12-22-2005, 02:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Enroutte

your car is black. YOURE EMO.

My car IS black, but I don't have a huge decal that reads,"MY CAR IS BLACK LIKE MY HEART."

Nikki · 12-22-2005, 02:21 AM

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Originally Posted by shimshimhada

My car IS black, but I don't have a huge decal that reads,"MY CAR IS BLACK LIKE MY HEART."

hahaha i will make them for you

Enroutte · 12-22-2005, 02:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Nikki

i'm usually happy. in fact i haven't been this sad in several years.

why are you sad?

its christmas!! be happy!

Enroutte · 12-22-2005, 02:22 AM

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Originally Posted by shimshimhada

My car IS black, but I don't have a huge decal that reads,"MY CAR IS BLACK LIKE MY HEART."

LOL. it shouldddd say that.

mi carro es de color negro me gusta mi HEART-O

haha.. yeah bad translation.

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